I have to vent to someone so I thought I would do it here! I have problems with my mother and stepfather. My mother is hypersensitive to just about everything and anything, particularly about my stepfather. They have been married for 7 years so this definately isnt a new relationship. We are all walking on eggshells as anything we say or do could be misconstrued as offensive.
We have a 17 month old girl, and this is starting to affect the relationship I want her to have with them. Its gotten to the stage that everytime we leave I am waiting for a phone call from my mother telling me what we have done wrong that visit. She has a problem with everything! "Why didnt you sit next to him?" "He felt like you didnt want him holding the baby" "We never see you" ect ect.
We have tried really hard to make everything civil during the visits. Its to the point that I have a running commentary in my head, "make sure you do this so no ones offended". Its driving me insane and I truly want to cut time I have with them!
Sorry for the long rant, but if anyone has an ideas I would love to hear them!