not all vegans are self-righteous judgement snobs sitting on their all-mighty pedastals..
i feel terrible all the time, because i have to keep one foot in & out [straddled it feels] because i feel i cant be too strick/obsessive around my children [well, in regards to taking their choices away..] & i get very worked up over it..
i know i would likely be a real strict judgemental arrogant vegan if i didnt have my family to get a taste of reality of having compassion & understanding that everyone is on their own journey & do what feels right to them, when it feels right..
dont beat yourself up over it..
the way i try & look at it is,
you do your best each day for whatever beliefs you have.. then let the rest go.