I've posted a few threads through this pregnancy & would like your input once again.
Heres a little history:
I have a cervical stitch & was scanned 2wks ago at 28wks by my OB's collegue in rooms for the length etc of Cx.
results were: Cx 1cm long, slight funnelling, stitch in place Cx closed. Ob who scanned me put his 5c worth in (really not a fan of him) about it & sent me back to my OB. My Ob said was not worried but we'd monitor.
Thursday gone I was admitted on rest for 48hrs after I had a SMALL loss through the night Wednesday, not even 'pink' to show for it but lunch time THursday. My ob came & did VE, said Cx closed but wanted to be safe. Could be discharged Sat morn as long as all was fine - eg, no contractions, pain or loss. Was to be on strict minimal duties however for the duration.
Sat Morn Collegue Ob ( one who scanned me) came in to (I thought) discharge me. He ripped screds off me saying I didn't understand the seriousness of the situtation & "I could deliver at any moment" that my baby was at risk & that I was "trying to assert" myself over him ...Now up until this point I was cautious but postive that we were on track still for 37wks. HE PUT THE FEAR OF GOD INTO ME & until yesterdaty I was a basket case, every BH, movement etc, I paniced.
Yesterday i went for a US at an independant as I asked to not see other Ob for the scan.
At 30wks results were: Cx 2.5cm long, NO funnelling, Cx closed
NOw I'm not silly & I'm not trying to sabotage this pregnancy, I love this baby & the whole idea of my having a stitch was to maximise my chances of having a term baby. But what do I do with these differing results?? How dues my Cx grown 1.5cm in a fortnight??? they afre so different.
I see MY ob on thursday & am trying to figure out how to talk to her about this. The differeing reslts, the way other Ob attacked me, the fact that if she is on "off w/e" or what ever HE will deliver my baby? I don't ever want him near me again, let alone deliver my baby...
What would you do? has anyone elses Cx just grown? i'm lost & need to find some diplomatic bearings by thurs.
thanks for listening, I know I'm long winded