My little girl's name is Annabelle but we had a hard time coming up with a middle name. I really liked Eloise but at one stage we discussed naming her after her dad's grandmother and since he really liked that idea, we went with it. Hence her name is Annabelle Elza.
But as time goes on, the more I really wish I had stuck with Eloise. I want her to like her name and I'm not sure being named after someone is a good idea. But we can't drop Elza completely because the in-laws are soooo excited about her being named after her GreatGM. They'd be seriously p*ssed off if I changed it now.
DH has said he has no problem with adding Eloise so she would be Annabelle Eloise Elza (which, in my mind, means on most forms etc the Elza would be dropped and I have no prob with that).
But should I bother? Does anyone (including her) even care what her middle name is? Is Elza really that bad? Obviously when I agreed to it, I didn't mind it. Will three names be too many?