If I sound a bit vague it is because I am trying to give out information without giving out information...you never know who is reading it. I need a management strategy on dealing with my mother-in-law. She lives on the other side of Australia but I feel like she plays a part in my life every day. I have arranged some time with her in the next month so she can see her first grandchild to the family who is seven months now and I am not excited about going....I feel it is my duty.
She wants to take him out and show him off all day to her friends even if i can't make it not considering he needs sleep, he won't be used to the climate change and won't be used to her and past gatherings have resulted in me thinking how the hell did we come out alive eg my bub having a chuck and she justs lets him spew all over himself without making sure he isn't choking just so she can get the 700th photo for that morning. Heaps more stuff and comments like..."if that is how you want to bring up your child" and "if you are going to Bali leave bub behind so he doesn't get blown up" not really caring about us
Hubby just laughs and ignores and that is what he tells me too. What do I do???