Maybe all that stalking has turned me into you LOL
What your saying makes perfect sense, I know you're not trying to bring me to the dark sideLMAO.
I just hope that we can be happy with our choice, whatever it will be. What I want is to like you be hit by a lightening bolt that makes me realise that this is it. Either that or have that yearning for another like I did with Aidan. Mum was saying the same thing to me about having more. SHe had 3 and wanted a big family but she said its more then acceptable to have just the one. She said where is the fun in having a beautiful story for Aidan and having to either make one up or say that we had you because we wanted a brother or sister for Aidan.
The one thing that gets to me though is when people say oh you're young it doesnt matter. But we both agree with no big gaps. Andrew's little sister is ten years younger and she was always feeling left out and alone. I personally think it would be worse to have a brother or sister ten years older than me then be an only child, thats me though. I just want to tell them to sod off age has nothing to do with it. The MIL said to us that seeing that Aidan was a mistake we should wait a while so that our next child is wanted stupid woman has no idea lol. But thats a whole other thread...