Over the Christmas break DH and I talked it over and decided once and for all that we will not be having any more.
We both feel that the risk is just to great, if the next baby came at 20-24 weeks or my liver shut down completely then our family would be devastated and we do not feel it is worth it when we have one beautifull perfect child.
Also I think that one of the things that was preventing me from feeling complete with just DS was my worries about all the nonsense people spout about only children spoilied/selfish/lonely etc.
I am now in a place where I dont care what others think of my choice and I know DS can be well rounded and happy without me producing another sibling to satisfy convention.
I am getting implanon put in this week .
It's nice to know I will be able to just focus on DS and help him grow .
So please chat to me, do you get much negativity for your choice to have one? When did you know you did not want any more? Has your child ever asked for siblings?