DH and I had very different upbringings, and as a result, we both have very different parenting styles.
It wasn't so obvious when DD was younger, but as she's getting older, I'm starting to see just how different our views are.
DH "Why can't she watch TV all day, TV is educational"
DH "Let her have ice-cream, let her have lollies and chips, she's a kid, they love it, I always had these things and I'm fine, and not overweight.
DH: Why can't she stay up all night, who cares about routine.
DH: "Why does she need vegetables every night, they're bland and boring."
DH: Lets teach her silly words, that make no sense, it's funny!
These might seem like minor things, (and there are many more ways in which we clash) but collectively it's starting to really get on my nerves.
It's putting a bit of a strain on our relationship, and I feel like i'm always telling him what to do, or what not to say to her, and I really don't want to be the one to say "do it my way, my way is right", he's just doing, what he knows.
Guess I'm looking for some advise, from anyone in a similar situation, how do you deal with it?