ok so here is the hypothetical..
your dh's dad has asperges
your dh has asperges which is on the autism spectrum.
your first child (son) has ASD now aswell
but your second child (girl) is fine.
would you have a 3rd child? if at %50 chance you would end up with a boy that would most likely be on the spectrum due to genetics...
im not thinking of having another yet but i want to know what other people would do in this situation.. please