I was at a family function today and a few people in my family dont know about my two babies in heaven.
Now, this has happened to me a few times and I just dont know how to handle it. I dont mind talking about my bubs, or the loss of them. Not at all - quite the opposite actually. My thought is that I want to make people aware of the fact that not all pregnancies are healthy and successful. I dont want sympathy votes, but just some respect for my two bubs who are waiting in heaven.
How do you handle conversations when people ask about having children? We haven't been blessed with any bubs yet, so people often ask when we are planning on beginning a family. How do you say that you have already tried, without putting the guilt trip on people, but whilst still respecting the memory of your loss?