Do you have a baby shower for subsequent pregnancies?

**cocobambino** · 12-08-2008 18:11

Just Curious,

I had one for DD2 but not DD1 so i was wondering if you have them for all pregnancies?

**Mamalicious** · 12-08-2008 18:18

I haven't had one yet so I'm definitely having one this time!!

I think for the first baby it's a really cool idea, but after the first I don't really like the idea of pressies and stuff, so I'm just going to invite people round and have yummy food and our bubs and bumps can hang out together for a bit.

**NibbleCurlynBub** · 12-08-2008 18:19

I haven't had a single one, so apparently not.

**punkbaby** · 12-08-2008 18:20

I have never had one LOL

**Emmi** · 12-08-2008 18:21

People I know have only had them for the first baby.

**Pregnor** · 12-08-2008 18:26

I think it would be rude to expect people to buy you presents every time you have a baby, as thats what it would seem like to me.

I guess its ok if you say, strictly no presents, so people dont feel obliged.

**NibbleCurlynBub** · 12-08-2008 18:27

Like instead of a baby shower, have a baby barbecue.

Both are quite ridiculous in wording..

**Tey** · 12-08-2008 18:29

I see nothing wrong with it!
This is my first, and will be having one for sure.

I guess you can compare it to whether you have a kitchen tea for each time you get married!?

**maisymum** · 12-08-2008 19:42

Hi I never had one for DD1

or DS2

but for my DS3

, a good friend through me a surprise baby shower, so that was really nice, we are trying for number 4 and it would be nice to have some sort of get together before the baby, but it would be strictly no prezies!