I'm having a cr@p day...come rejoice with me...*vent*

**XavysMummy** · 11-08-2008 13:27

I am having a sh!t of a day today, my dad is being a pain in the butt since mum left him in January cos he was cheating on her... now he wants his 3 kids to feel sorry for him...
GROW UP I say!!
I'm sick of being in the middle
I'm sick of HIM trying to make me feel sorry for him
HE forgot my DHs birthday last week
HE lost his license for drink driving in Feb for 6mths and apparently its OUR fault he doesn't see his grandkids (my bro's kids)
I'm sick of HIM hurting my mum with his actions and words
I'm sick of his cr@p affecting my life and my marriage
I'm sick of hearing how great it is with his new life and new GF
I'm sick of HIM!!!
I'm sick of waiting for AF to arrive since my MC so I can start TTC again
I'm sick of everything!!!

Sorry vent over, feel free to share your vents here today...

It will make you feel better

**HunterzMummy** · 11-08-2008 13:29

Great big Hugs to you, DH and your Mum

That is so awful. I have no advice just heaps of these

**sockstealingpoltergeist** · 11-08-2008 13:38

Wow he sounds like he is being very very selfish and stressing you out.
I hope he comes to his senses soon before he drives everyone away.

**Craftymum** · 11-08-2008 14:05

Oh Kaz, so sorry to hear about your troubles.

**XavysMummy** · 11-08-2008 14:08

Thanks Lisa

**KMS** · 11-08-2008 14:16

Thinking of you Kazc.

It's the last thing that you need when you are TTC, is stressful enough, without having the extra worries.

Your Dad sounds like he has a lot of issues he needs to deal with and needs to stop dragging you down with him.

Best wishes and I hope things improve.

Lots of

to you and your DH.

**RedPanda** · 11-08-2008 14:17

Sorry to hear you're having a rough time

I've moved this thread to the "Family and Friends" section - you'll probably get more responses than you would in the "Announcement" section.

Cheers.

DQ · 11-08-2008 14:20

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KazC

Sorry your family is making you feel uncomfortable.

I'm having a cr@p day too.

And to top it all off, I had a huge panic attack because I thought I forgot to pay my personal loan so I jumped on netbank this morning and quickly paid it. Only to realise that I did in fact pay it about 8 days ago

Now I'm broke and ticked off

**XavysMummy** · 11-08-2008 14:20

Thanks

**XavysMummy** · 11-08-2008 17:34

Originally Posted by DramaQueen

Big

KazC

Sorry your family is making you feel uncomfortable.

I'm having a cr@p day too.

And to top it all off, I had a huge panic attack because I thought I forgot to pay my personal loan so I jumped on netbank this morning and quickly paid it. Only to realise that I did in fact pay it about 8 days ago

Now I'm broke and ticked off

That sux! I am an Ex-banker...can I suggest you set up an automatic direct debit so you don't pay it twice again?
Hope your day improved!