My DD is 15 months old and still not capable of eating food by herself with a spoon. Actually, she still isn't overly interested in solid foods and will only eat bits and pieces . We did baby led solids at 7 months and she is also breastfed which she loves.
My mum made me feel bad yesterday as she said my DD should well and truly be using a spoon by now and that she would also be deficient in nutrients like iron.
Personally I don't think it really matters about spoon feeding at this age. As long as she's some how getting food in her mouth I'm happy
Just wondering what age your baby started feeding itself with a spoon?