this person that I know,
she has just had her baby, and he is perfect, very cute, born 3 days overdue, weighs 9.8pounds, which is a big boy, he is really perfect though.
Mind you she had a trouble free pregnancy!
And then there is me, who has gestational diabetes, my kids like to, for no known reason pop out earlier than normal, like 32/40 and 36/40.
All my kids are fine too, but I stopped smoking, stopped drinking, (excuse me, in both pregnancies I had one west coast on my birthday)
This friend, smokes like a chimney, more than I do normally, and did not even attempt to cut back.
She also drank a bourbon and coke can every friday and saturday night!!
We had a big thing about the smoking a drinking a little while ago, and I said to her, its not worth the risk to smoke and drink, enough things can happen on there own, and to me 9 months out of your life to give your baby the best chance is nothing.
Now that she has had her second perfect baby, she has rubbed it in my face, and thinks that the reason I have early babies and other problems is due to the stress of not smoking, she said, sure cut back if you want but just have one if you want!!!
So that is my vent about someone that rubs me the wrong way with just about every thing possible!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks to her now I really do feel like a smoke!!!!!!! and wont have one.