of being told to use cc and to put my baby in day care. i don't want to. i don't like letting my babies cry, i followed all the advice with my eldest and used cc, but i hated it and he hated it. so i am not going to do it with my dd.
and 12 months old is to young for daycare since i don't have to work, if i had to work then yes i would do it but i don't even like my eldest being in day care. he is 4 and the only reason i put him in daycare this year is because he wants to be in school this year is but he missed the cut off date by a few months.
i just wish people would stop telling me how to raise my kids, they are mine and when they grow up if i screwed them up then feel free to say i told you so but until then just stay out of my business. (not the girls here you have been a wealth of advice and never get snotty at me if i don't use it) just getting sick of people irl telling me how to care for my kids.
just wish some people would back off and accept that just because they see my kids once every so often they think they know them and know whats best for them.
ps i will co sleep if i want i don't care if it's a rod for my own back-it's my back not anyone elses get over it people.