My friends dd is a pain in the butt

[Mums5Kids]

Ok so i have no kids all weekend except for my 1 yr old and my friend just called and wants to come over with her 5 yr old dd, she makes a mess trashes the house winges, my kids arent here for her to play with anyway, and i just want some peace and quite without having her kid over when i dont have mine. Am i a biotch? She is an only child and a spoilt little brat the moment she is here i cant wait for her to leave.
I avoid my friend when she has her dd i try and see her during the school week. Has anyone come across this problem???

[Hollywood]

No, haven't quite had that problem, but if I were you I'd be thinking of a darn good reason to avoid her visiting......asap!

[punkbaby]

hmm i have a freind who 2 kids stress me out and are so wild its horrible i have to hide when she comes around as she just lands and i hate it but its te only way

You would thnk that seeing you dont have the other kids she would think Oh i will leave you alone, thats how i think. Say you think your 1yo has gastro or something or go out for an hour You poor thing (

[Mums5Kids]

So she just left like usual her dd was a complete pain in the @ss. She trashed my dd's room, she stood in my dd's toy box that is only made from ply wood, she wanted to watch a movie then lost interest then *****ed at me when i turned it off because she went to play and she said i wasnt playing i was cleaning up. Then she wanted to borrow a dvd and i said no and she cried. Then she winged because my baby sucked on something of hers that she left on the floor, she went up and down the stairs a 1000 times just to open the baby gate ( so annoying) while her mother sat on her @ss and did nothing the whole time. She pulled everything off my fridge and left it on the floor only for the baby to get, she then climbed my bookcase and i only wished it came down crashing on her, she then said "get me a drink" so i ignored her. She then went into my pantry searching for something to eat and then said " cook dinner im hungry" what a little shyt thankgod i never babysit because i cant stand the little shyt even my 3 year old doesnt act or speak like that and this child is in kindergarten for facks sake. And her mother said ive had enough if you im dropping you off and nannies house, thats how she deals with it. It will be interesting to see how or if she copes once the baby comes along. Thankgod they have left they always out stay their welcome, oh and when they arrived we were having lunch and they scabbed off our plates!!!!!

[punkbaby]

Its hard when your freinds are like that, well thier kids are, sadly some kids arent taught respect in others homes and it makes it so hard if there is a genuine freindship involved. I am amazed the mother did nothing i would say from now on that you only want to have play dates at the park simple as that as if you dont have enough to do anyhow as it is!! she sounds like a very rude little girl, although its not her fauly entirely its the way shes been bought up i guess

[mum2bubba]

for you.

I hate when people don't discipline their kids.

[Mum2Bella]

i would shut all the bedroom doors,tell her no playing in rooms as your children were upset that she messed up the rooms when she was here last time or if she does go into the rooms give her 15mins b4 they are going to clean the room

if my kids make a mess i always get them to help clean it up,


maybe next time tell her you will meet her at maccas for a coffee

[sweet pea]

Hate to say it, but I have a few relatives who's kids drive me up the wall. It's sad really, as it makes me dread having to see them.

I can't stand it when people allow their children to "run wild" in other people's homes. I run around like a lunatic when we are out visiting with our daughter, making sure she's behaving. Just wish people would extend me the same courtesy.

[OJandMe]

Just don't have her over...

Of if she's a good friend... I'd just be honest and say.. "look, you need to control her or take her home. She's trashing my house, and I don't want to clean up after her." (but I'm very blunt like that... )

To tell you the truth, I wouldn't have had them over at all.. I would have said "no, not now. I only have the 1yr old and am enjoying the peace and quiet. Maybe once the other kids get back we can go have a picnic lunch at a park or something."

[Mums5Kids]

my dp said next time tell her no and make up some **** that we are going somewhere and make it as though we are going like an hr or so away so she isnt inclined to come along for the ride. Or tell her we are about to have a shag while the baby is asleep! lol