I went for a check up yesterday (1 week after my D&C) my Dr said everything was fine and that I can start having sex again, I said 'too late' he just laughed and said 'ok then', he said that I should get my period in the next 3-5wks and that there is no reason to wait to TTC again if thats what we want. He said physically Im fine and ready to go but just to judge for myself if im emotionally ready. So DH & I are both happy to start TTC straight away but some of our close friends and family have been so judgemental about this! We were suprised especially when the incinuate that we havent taken time to grieve! I said that I had 12 hours alone in hospital in contraction pain to come to terms with the fact that I was loosing this baby and that I feel it would be best to TTC straight away, Im not trying to forget the baby or ignore what happened, but how long do they expect me to greive? cant I grieve while pregnant if I feel that way?? Is it wrong that I already feel complete closure and am at peace with the fact that the baby we lost is gone? I no its only been a week but its been filled with a lot of emotion- tears, anger, sadness, confussion etc. I know im not 100% over this and no i wont be for a long time if ever but i dont think life should stand still while i grieve, is that bad to feel like that?? Is is normal?