So the tests are in! we're not pregnant and My brother in law and his parnter are I can't help but feel a bit jealous and I can't stop putting her down in small ways. I mean you'd have to know her to know what I mean, but to put it nicely, she's not the smartest crayon in the box. My BIL does everything for her like drives her around where ever and when ever, lays out her clothes in the morning for work, gets up like 6am (even if his not working) and makes her breakfast and I reckon if she asked he'd wipe her butt! Talking to her is a nightmare because it's like talking to a child, half the time you can't even understand her and the subjects are always, "I got a new top", " I'm so tired from work", I this, I that. I know it's mean but the rest of the family feel the same way, their just nice because thats who my BIL has chosen to be with. I'm just worried that my poor BIL is going to be stuck with two children instead of one and it's going to be to much for him. She's the kind of person who gives up when it's to hard and we all know how hard looking after a newborn is. You must think I'm a complete selfish b##ch, but trust me, I don't think she's going to be able to cope.