Hi there, I really need opinions on this:
DH Grandad fainted at his home on thurs last week and DH drove him to doc and offered for him to stay here with us, he accepted....
We spoke to DS about it and asked if he would kindly give his room to his great grandfather for a few days and sleep foot to foot in his sisters bed, he was happy to at first but last night he got a little overwhelmed and expressed how he would love to have his own bed back, he was really sobbing, but I felt if I asked Great Grandad to swap into DD bed that he might feel as though he is putting us out.
He is 82 (but very good for his age) and I dont have the heart to shift him.
Sooooo.... Should I offer a reward to DS for giving up his bed, or should he just be co-operative and rewarded by the fact he did the right thing for his Great Grandad???????
I feel for DS cos I am a homebody too and like my privacy, Its hard for all of us.
What do you reckon?