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This is going to be long and not make much sense so bare with me.
My DD is nearly 13yo now and we seperated from her father when she was just 14months old. He went on to marry the woman he was having an affair with behind my back and they had 3 sons. The eldestis just 12 months younger then my DD.
My DD's father seperated from his wife approx. 4 years ago now but spends all his time with his 3 sons when he isnt working. He has taken the boys on numerous holidays, pays for there sporting fees and even coaches/manages there teams. He always gets the boys birthday and christmas presents such as things like a computer,ipods, nintendo DS etc.
Now my DD is not stupid by any means and has commented on many occasions about what her brothers get off there father. Last xmas she was meant to get an nintendo DS but because he supposedly couldnt get a pink one he told her she will have to wait. Keep in mind the boys took great delight in telling her they got ipods, nintendos etc.
Last night she came out of her room in tears and when I asked her wjhat was wrong she asked me why her father doesnt love her. Let me say I was heartbroken to say the least. This man who is meant to be her father is doing nothing but screwing with her head. I told her if that is how she feels then she needs to ask him as I cant answer that for him.
What annoys me is that when she sees him which is not very often at all she talks to him like he is the best thing since sliced bread and then treats her stepdad like he is dirt. I am then stuck in the middle of my DH and DD all because of this stupid sperm donor of a father
(see told you it would be all over the place...lol)
He is making life so hard for my family here from his lack of being a father to his daughter.
I guess this was just a vent more then anything. Thanks if you read all my