my twins

**mamma0f3** · 31-12-2007 16:10

three months ago i found out i was preg the very day i was told i was 2 months preg i started to bleed so i went to the doc he told me it was probably a miscarriege and to go home wait it out and rest so i went home but the pain was bad so i went to the hospital where i miscarried one baby then a few days later i went to the docs to get more tests they told me i was still pregnant so they sent me back to the hospital where they said i must have been pregnant with twins because i was still pregnant but the baby was in my left fallopian tube they had to operate and take my fallopian tube and kill my baby

they admitted me and said the operation would take place that afternoon but it did not four days later i was still laying in a hospital bed going crazy because i knew i had to give up this second twin they did the op after 4 days and when i cried over my lost twins they called them wastage saying the pregnancy was never viable, they also explained 2 eggs had been firtalized and one got stuck in the fallopian tube so my body was trying to reject the babies .... how horrible of them to talk like that about my babies after i found out it was twins i named them mathew and matilda ( i of course couldnt know the sex but they were my babies too and i think they should be acknowledged)
now i cant have any more babies at all
my partner can but its not the same

**Myztik** · 31-12-2007 16:15

I dont know what to say but couldn't read that an not reply

I'm so sorry they spoke about your babies that way, that was so wrong.

**kas3** · 31-12-2007 16:21

i'm so sorry for your loss m3. I'm thinking of you.

**toni796** · 31-12-2007 19:56

Sorry for your loss

**nuddle** · 31-12-2007 20:35

thats awful, medical staff should know better.. I have lost two sets of twins, and had similar horrible comments... hugs, it hurts, and you will never forget or wonder what could have been, but it does get easier.

when you say you now cant have kids, did they take both your tubes?

**Toffee apple** · 31-12-2007 21:01

so so sad.

**KatiesMum** · 31-12-2007 21:04

So sorry for your loss. It is such a tough thing to deal with anyway ....made worse by thoughtless people with stupid uncaring remarks.

Matthew

Matilda

**kristi001** · 31-12-2007 21:14

OMG hun huge hugs for you!!!

I am so sorry for the Huge loss you have just gone through, remember when there is a will theres a way and you will have your own children some day!!

More hugs coming your way!!

**grass is always greener** · 31-12-2007 21:34

I am very sorry for your loss. I am also so sorry that the medical staff spoke about your babies like that i front of you. What ever medical terms they use is fine if it is away from the patient. I wish you all the best.

Mathew and Matilda