I donít know where to start or even if the words will come out the way I am thinking them in my head.
Its been about 4 weeks now and DP has had his best mate come up to visit granted he isnít here all the time but he comes and goís when he pleases kinda using the house as an inn. I wouldnít mind so much but he is just really starting to get on my nerves.
He is rude and inconsiderate something I never noticed about him before because we have gotten along pretty well I guess its living with someone.
His room looks like a tornado hit it, something that I could live with because you could just shut the door but itís not just his room. He leaves wet towels on the bed, they go to the beach and the floor is covered in Sand so I clean it up, he does his washing and leaves it wet on the floor, he leaves his **** all over the place, Slams doors, has music on when Blakeís Sleeping. Or even today got home and turned his music up to ďdrownĒ out what I had on. Am I over reacting or isnít it common practice to clean up after yourself at someone elseís house. We cook dinner he complains about what we are eating and then he hasnít once offered to help cook or even clean up.
My major problem is that he has my DP wrapped around his little finger he says jump and DP says how high. Its even causing us to fight more than ever too the point where I have just had enough. DP wont speak up to him so I have to and then Iím seen as ďthe *****Ē I just want him to stand up for me if that makes sense.
Like today he suggested that we go to the pub and I said no we have Blake to which he replied ďOh I Forgot you have a baby you cant have a lifeĒ He just infuriates me its not that we donít have a life its just that Blake is our main concern and we do ĎfamilyĒ things not what a teenage single male does not that there is anything wrong with that but donít put down the way I live.
He persisted so much that as we speak DP and him are down at the pub. That doesnít bother me so much but I feel like DP and I are starting to become a lost cause. I guess Iím jealous in a way I say do you want to go out (we had the chance to have a night without Blake) and heís like nah I canít be bothered its like he doesnít want to spend time with me ever and thatís what hurts. He will chat with his mate for hours or do things with him and me not even a chance itís always later or another day and if we do do anything I organize it and make him come. I feel like why do I bother?
Am I Totally over reacting about this or can anyone see where I am coming from??