i was against controlled crying when baby was very young but after trying everything else I'm getting a bit desperate and beleive it will be important to help him learn to sleep. he is 12months old and 12 kgs - so getting way to heavy to carry. By doing some crying at night (but staying with him or going in and out he doesgo to sleep by himself (some nights better than others but this hasn't worked in the day and I feel i need to be more regimented.
I tried baby whisperer pick up put down method (ie stay with him just lay him back down when he gets up) it worked the first week but still took 20 to 40mins and i had to keep going in a month later.
has anyone any advice or experience to share on cc during the day for a very persistent baby (he gets really upset) but i know he is smart and probably knows I will come in. Has it not worked for anyone. he is almost walking so wondering if i should wait till then when he is very tired from running around! i have been carryinghim to sleep but it can still take a while and he is too heavy and i'm pregnant again so I cna't continue this!
Thanks in advance