My husband passed away

**Michael's mummy** · 20-02-2006 21:41

When I was 8 weeks pregnant my husband past away. I have another child to him. DD aged 9.5 years. I have not really had time to grieve. With the excitement of baby being born and the non stop work of being a mother of two. Sometimes i feel a bit depressed. Today I felt very lost.

**Sarie** · 20-02-2006 21:44

Hon I'm so sorry. Having a new born alone is big enough to deal with let alone every thing you must be coping with.
My heart goes out to you, if you ever need a shoulder I'm here.

**My3kids** · 20-02-2006 21:45

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your hubby. Deepest sympathy. I sure he will be there watching over you on the safe arrival of your baby.

Best wishes

**Frazzled** · 20-02-2006 21:46

First of all, i can not begin to imagine how you feel but I am very sorry for your loss. Do you have someone close by that you can rely on, talk to and so forth? There is always this forum too.

Im sure that you must be feeling so many things, with the new bubba and helping your older daughter grieve and so on.

But it is probably best for everyone that you have the time to grieve properly, do you have any idea how this could be best done? Do u need time alone? Away with family and friends, a special celebration of your husbands life? Do you have a strong support network?

I really do not know what to say but i feel for you and am always here to lend an ear or a shoulder, xxx kate xxx

**WeThree** · 20-02-2006 21:50

i know there is nothing i can say that can ease your pain, but you have come to a wonderful community where you are always welcome to share your grief and where you will receive support and a shoulder to cry on. i hope you are getting through the days ok and that you have lots of support from family and friends.
blessings to you and your children and I am deeply sorry for your loss.
xx

**lukaelmo** · 20-02-2006 21:52

Michael's mummy I am so sorry

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**Michael's mummy** · 20-02-2006 22:12

My son is now 12 mths old and my husband has been gone now for 1.5 years.

**reAllytee** · 20-02-2006 22:18

I am sorry to hear of your loss.
I also could not imagine the pain your going through let alone all the emotions of having a new baby the excitement etc but then as well as grief for your other half.
Probably nothing we can say will take that pain away yet we would if we could but please use this great place to help you through this time.
Cry, laugh, scream, b!tch & talk as much as you want we are all here anytime you need us

**Ana Gram** · 20-02-2006 22:19

From personal experience, you need to take some time out and start dealing with your grief. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

**sugar n spice** · 20-02-2006 22:22

michaels mummy i am so sorry to hear of your loss. i wont pretend to know what you are going thought i don't but i am hear if you wish to have someone listen or talk to .
rachel xxxxx