i asked dp to come to my first ultrasound which is on tuesday.i'm only about 10weeks at this stage. he says he doesn't think he can take any time off work as he jsut took a week and a half off. all i am asking for is 1-2 hours(which coincides with his lunch break)anyway, i understood that it may be difficult.
then...a mate rang to remind him of the big soccer trip thats coming up(it's in sydney, 5 hours away). he's like yep, course i'm going. when he got off the phone i said , well you can't take 2 hours off work to be with me but you can take 2 days off work to go on soccer trip(its 4 days)
it costs $250, and he doesn't know where he'l get the money from, i think he thought it would be ok to take it out of th ebill money. sorry but how is it fair that he spends $250 of our bill money to drink, probably go to a strip club, and be a complete idiot (as apparently what happened last year)
i said wel you wil have to think of a way to pay for it or not go. he said but i really want to go. thing is i have wanted to go back to the blue mountains ever since dd 8mths now was born as my closest friends still have not met her and even the family i lived with down there have not met her.
i know he will go because when it comes to soccer, soccer always seems to come first. he has already spent at least $300 associated with soccer things this year.
am i totally unreasonable. i know i do get very emotional when i'm pregnant.