Yep,yet another regular who feels the need to go undercover ....
Where do I start...ok,about 5 days ago DH and I had a fight over something very silly,and it quickly escalated to a full on yelling match....I'm still not talking to him because I believe he has disrepected me ...
The first fight,he called me a b!tch,an idiot and told me I was delusional....he said a weak sorry the next day and I didn't accept it because I wa so angry at him...because of what he called me and because he can't accept it when he is wrong and I am right.He always thinks he's right.
So he then called me an idiot 2 more times when I didin't accept his apology,so now, I have had it. You don't call the person you're meant to love and respect names like that.
I'm not going to stand for that anymore...because he told me,and thinks it's ok to call me names like that when we fight.In the past when arguing,he has told me "You're f****d" three times,yep I have counted.When I was pregnant with DD we had a fight and he made me hyperventilate.
He hasn't bothered to try apologising since our 2nd fight the other day..I really don't think he cares.....and I don't either at this point.
All these little things have added up over the past 3 years that we've been married...he never used to be like this ...I don't know if I love him anymore.
I think DD and I would be better off on our own.The house is mine and I would be fine with the repayments.
I'm just scared about DD, that he might try to take her off me etc..he is a good dad,and I'm also worried about taking her daddy away from her.
Theres hardly any intimacy in our marriage,no communication bcause he won't talk about his feelings,we don't laugh and play together anymore...I feel like I'm the only one who trys here.
I never envisioned my marriage to be like this.I 'm thinking of writing him a letter,this way he can't interrupt me.
Argghhh what do I do? Give him another chance or leave? IS it only going to get worse as time goes on?
I'll be damned to give in and apologise first,I did nothing wrong,I'm quite happy to go another five days without talking to him.