A girlfriend from my church has been looking for a new house. She loves where she lives, but it comes at a price (a very expensive one at that!) Since we kicked out our last housemate she has been dropping hints that she was hoping she could move in with me after DH goes away for his 6 month deployment.
At first I was thinking that it would be a good idea, and I told her that I would talk to DH and pray about it.
I have realised that I dont particularly think it would be the best idea. At the moment I can only handle her in small doses, and I would prefer for us to not end up in a situation where I need to ask her to leave.
At the same time, I feel really guilty leaving a fellow Christian in the lurch. She doesn't have much stability at work and she really needs a break - this could be exactly what I am denying her.
I really dont know what to do!