they r gonna ruin my daughters party

[mandy31]

Hey my daughter turns 1 on a sat and we r throwin a party 4 her and her father who just turned 21.my problem is every1 is trying to invite ppl who i dont know and r under age and wanna drink i have already told the cops bout the party becoz of all the gate crashing in the area.Im a really shy person and hate confronting ppl but i dont wanna be the 1 to get in trouble by the cops. my friend even invited her mum i have never meet the woman and my sister in law invited her bf who i also have never meet and they wanna stay the night help plez how do i tell them with out comin of as a ***** any advice would help

[OM]

Huh, I am confused ppl are gate crashing a 1st b'day?????

[Shanaynay]

Maybe it would be a good idea to hold seperate 1st and 21st birthday parties, so the 1st birthday can stay safe and friendly

[AquaDevil78]

Maybe it would be a good idea to hold seperate 1st and 21st birthday parties, so the 1st birthday can stay safe and friendly

Exactly what i was going to say.

I doubt you would want your Daughter around a rowdy bunch of 21 +/- year olds anyway.. even if there Birthdays are the same day.

They can celebrate during the day together, but have the partys seperate.

[Noah_and_Elijah]

I agree with phineas about having them seperate. Having all of those people there for a 1st birthday doesn't sound like a very good idea.

[mandy31]

there is only family at her party during the day then it turns into hes 21st later that night thats when all the friends and that will turn up

[DivinelySophistimicated]

Well then its not your daughters party, its his! Tell all the older people not to come until later in the evening that way your daughters party will be over!

[~Emmylou~]

I agree with phineas about having them seperate. Having all of those people there for a 1st birthday doesn't sound like a very good idea.

A 21st birthday party and a baby's 1st birthday party are two VERY different events.

If there is a risk of your DD's party being ruined I would hold it another day altogether. She is only one, and she' s not going to know any different if you move it.

I'd be ropeable if drunk yobbo's crashed my babies 1st birthday party, I'd seriously be changing the day.

[javalava]

So is your daughter going elsewhere while this 21st is on??

[TinyStar]

I think I'd go out for the 21st instead, have a nice party at home for the 1st, let birthday baby have a nap, then go out for dinner/whatever for the 21st.

You take bub home and the party animals can do whatever, far far away from you and your bub.