I have recently asked for a donor and a wonderful women has come forward. I am excited and hopeful, but I am also struggling. I can't help thinking about how much I am asking of someone.
The more I think about it the more risks I see for the donor. What if she has a reaction to the treatment (maybe emotional or OHSS) that interferes with her ability to look after herself and her family? How would I live with myself? (yeah, cos its all about me!).
I am not sure this is coming out right, but how have other people dealt with this?