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**sandy_1902** · 15-07-2007 17:58

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**TyBean** · 15-07-2007 18:16

Sandy hun!! lots of

for you...

Have you spoken to him about it at all??... about how it makes you feel and stuff??... and why he doesn't do it?...

He may feel like he doesn't have to because he 'has you' if you know what I mean...

Maybe sit down and talk to him about it... or write him a letter explaining it all... and let him know how you truely feel about it...

Better still do you want me to give him a slight hint!!

I hope it works hun!!... you deserve to be spoilt!!

**borntobemummy** · 15-07-2007 18:30

I agree with liltandme.

I know where you are coming from, and believe me, some men need to be told exactly how to love you. Find out how he needs love from you and tell him how you need love from him. And hopefully one day, it will become spontaneous.

My DH is just starting to catch on after 7 years together!

**TyBean** · 15-07-2007 18:55

hun some guys need to hear it 'straight up' for them to realise it... he may not have any idea you feel like this.... most guys honestly don't..

I even just asked DF... and he agreed.... tell him straight up...

Sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel.... tell him once in a while you would like some spontanaity.... tell him you want to be treated like an angel....

pm me his number!! I'll pull him into line for you!!

**sandy_1902** · 15-07-2007 19:42

if i was to sit down i would have No idea what to say to him i had bringing **** up it sjust like i dunno

haha k i shall lol =]

**woven_wings** · 16-07-2007 12:37

Awww hun!

Have a chat to him. Tell him how you are feeling and what he can do to change. Make sure he knows you are unhappy and if it continues like this you dont know whether it will last.

Cass had some great advice.

All the best! xox

**sandy_1902** · 17-07-2007 17:37

so i talked to him and it all is my fault... i dunno how..... i dunno [text removed by moderator]

**TyBean** · 17-07-2007 17:43

what's all your fault hun??..

**Lirael** · 17-07-2007 17:46

I cannot understand what you are saying in your last post but you know what? I think if he is treating you this way he does not love you and is a bum head

sorry, butI dont think he really cares at all, or he would be trying alot harder than he is.

**workin'mumof2** · 17-07-2007 19:57

aww poor sweet pea i dont know what your going through but handling a new baby and your problem with your parner at the same time all i can say is try and be strong, sounds like you need a good hugg and an ear to talk to. is there anyone in your area that could help you or talk to your partner. or would that just be including a unwanted 3rd party.

i hope it gets better for you