Im just wondering with your bubs how much say did you get in your birthing options?
Was it simply what pain relief you had?
When you wanted your CS,or induction?
Was it going beyond the magic 42
Or did the doctors pretty much take control and you simply had to sit back until they were good and ready?
Im due to give birth to my second bub late this month/early next. After complications arising due to being overdue and induced last pregnancy, I ended up with a very traumatic birth. The obs are quite happy to let me keep going to 42 weeks yet again however I am dead against the thought and it makes me sick to the stomache. I am just wondering how much Say did you get?
and Why the heck are my requests being brushed off? As a second time mother I really feel I should have a little more say towards when and how things should happen this time. I've been down the 'faith in the medical system' path and that faith is no longer there.
So Your experiences/opinions would be much appreciated, as well as some tips to getting my point across to doctors that know everything.