As you all probably know, I desperately want a VBAC and NEVER want to see the insides of an operating theatre again.
However, I do wonder if my intense desire to have a VBAC is going to leave my UTTERLY devistated if it doesn't work out, or if there's medical reasons as to why I might need to have a scheduled caesarean.
So, this is a question for the women who planned to have a VBAC, but ended up with a caesarean.
How did you feel? If you felt bad about yourself for not having a vaginal birth the first time around, did you feel even worse when you needed it the 2nd? Did you feel really let down?
I don't really know what to ask... but any info on how it made you feel would be really great.
I just want to prepare myself, in case one day, my dream of VBAC DOESN'T happen... I want to be at least prepared to feel some emotions. (I do understand that it'll be different from person to person... but I'd still like to know if you're willing to share!).