single parenthood here i come

[immarni]

Well for those who have read the thread "am i doing the right thing" you will know my situation. Well this morning its really made it definate for me that we are separated. Dan went on a date lastnight.....rocked up home about 6am this morning and proceeded to tell me how good the sex was with his new partner. Apart from me feeling completely disgusted that he was telling me about this it just showed me how immature he is and how much i really meant to him if he can move on so quickly. His excuse was of course well your the one who broke it off with me so why shouldnt i move on. Everyone who said he was trying to manipulate me with his behaviour when he was crying and all that were right :) dead on!

Anyways....so apart from being upset that everything in my relationship failed...i am looking forward to starting again and just getting on with my life. I'm not afraid of doing it on my own because thats all ive done since gg was born. He has never bathed her ....not once, and i can count on one hand the amount of nappies he has changed and the amount of times he has fed her. The only thing i'm worried about is the financial side of things but i'm sure i will work something out. Anyways enough of my blabbering...just wanted to thank everyone for their support and their input. Really helped :)

[jamb]

what a jerk, you and DD are better off without him, who needs a role model like that.

best of luck, good choice:hugs:

[Femme-Fetale]

All the best for you hun, ive been following your story and im glad that this is finally the end. Its sad but it needed to be didnt it.

Dont stress about the finances, you will manage, just like the rest of us, and with careful budgeting you can sometimes manage to even save money - it doesnt have to be as hard as it sometimes is.

Make sure you call centerlink first thing on monday to arrange your payments, and ALL THE BEST to you and little DD

[nelly75]

What a great attitude!! Good on you for your courage and for not letting someone who is that immature control your life with his emotional blackmail!!

[OneBabyBoy]

Oh gosh that must have been so horrible to have him tell you things like that. You are soooo much better off without him. And, like you said you've been doing it all yourself anyway so it will just be a relief to you. Good luck with everything :hugs:

[daddaddad]

I'm happy to hear that he has shown you his true colours earlier rather than later, he has saved you a lot of grief by being such a jerk. If that makes sense

Enjoy your new found strength.

[Pobblebonk]

:eek: Can't believe he did that!

Just continue to shake your head in his direction sweetie and lift your head up high.

[*munchkin*]

:eek: Oh boy...what a massive A hole!
You poor thing - that must have hurt you immensely. But in strange way it's kind of good, as he has ensured that you will never feel guilty or fall for his emotional blackmail again. What a jerk.

Lots of :hugs: + super strength vibes coming your way. You've got a great attitude and lots of inner strength, and I know you'll do just fine.

(Do call Centrelink ASAP..they can even give you and emergency advance payment if you are desperate.)

[motherlylove]

Sorry to hear you are going through this and to have to listen to him say that to you.

Cheers girl here's to the new chapter in yours n dds life

[Chanelc]

Just catching up with threads and all I will say is I think men's coping mechanism to "feel like a man " is to jump the first woman they meet.
Just think it is his loss and you will meet someone who deserves you
Sendin big HUG:hugs: