I'm freaking out!!!! [Archive] - Bub Hub Pregnancy & Parenting Forum

Bewitched

07-06-2007, 08:27

Sorry, bit long!

I am freaking out i am pregnant again :eek: (We are obviously not trying!). Ok, ok, so i think i may be because yesterday when i was in the shower i noticed those big dark rings around the nipples, these are always there when i am pregnant :(

I am hoping it's not the case, i could not cope with 4 kiddies i don't think (even though i'd love them of course) :gloomy:

But I shouldn't be panicking though! Because my period is only due today!! But given how stressed i have been lately, with uni restarting and starting a new job and dealing with my 16 month old DS screaming all day every day, it is possible my period could run late by a week when i'm like this......I don't know how i am going to remain calm until that happens!

Oh, and get this, my DH is due for his vasectomy in two weeks...wouldn't ya know it, it'd be just our luck to have this happen now :crying: ..even though it would be our fault IYKWIM

Lirael

07-06-2007, 08:28

do a test :)

~rambox~

07-06-2007, 08:29

I agree do a test to ease your mind :hugs:

Bewitched

07-06-2007, 08:32

I knew you smart girlies would say that :D ....but i just can't bring myself too...i know i should, i really should....but i'm scared too!! I will have to spend today plucking up the courage i think.

~rambox~

07-06-2007, 08:38

If you havent got the courage to go buy it ask a friend to get it for you :hugs:

Bewitched

07-06-2007, 08:41

If you havent got the courage to go buy it ask a friend to get it for you :hugs:

Thanks hun :hugs: but that's the hardest part, i don't have any friends here where i live, we only just moved, i don't even know my neighbours yet. I will try and get the test myself tomorrow, i don't think i have the guts today, i am too panicky :(

~rambox~

07-06-2007, 08:43

Thanks hun :hugs: but that's the hardest part, i don't have any friends here where i live, we only just moved, i don't even know my neighbours yet. I will try and get the test myself tomorrow, i don't think i have the guts today, i am too panicky :(

I know exactly how you feel i only know 2 people here as we moved here 6mths ago :hugs: If i was near i would go get it for you :kiss:

Bewitched

07-06-2007, 09:47

I know exactly how you feel i only know 2 people here as we moved here 6mths ago :hugs: If i was near i would go get it for you :kiss:

Thanks presh :hugs: you guys make me feel so supported xo

BlessedWithBlue

07-06-2007, 12:23

I know how you feel, i had the twins in Jan 30th this year and much to dh's and my shock i am pregnant with #5 which is due in Jan '08 so the twins will only barely be one:eek:
GL let us know how you go:hugs:

subaruforestermum

07-06-2007, 12:38

Hey, Take a few deep breaths.....I fixed the way to not get pregnant...stopped having sex......lol

You will be fine whatever the outcome, (easy for me to say I only have 1), but just take time out for yourself and relax, and stay open minded, as your less likely to stress if you have an open mind going into things.....

:hugs:

~rambox~

07-06-2007, 12:40

Thanks presh :hugs: you guys make me feel so supported xo

No problems at all i say we need all the friends we can get even if we cant have a coffee together :hugs:

trittysmum

07-06-2007, 12:43

im here if u need somone to talk to. let me know how the test goes

Cinta

07-06-2007, 12:47

I know its hard but you need to calm down and try not to stress!

Go and get a test as soon as possible, at least you will know either way and you can take it from there.

Either way it's not good for you to be worried and stressed so you need to know!

Just take it as it comes...whatever will be will be.

Whatever the outcome, you WILL get through it.

Take a deep breath. Just relax. Breathe in, breathe out...And go to the shops and get a test!

All the best, hope you get the outcome that you want...Big :hugs:

Love love xoxo

Verdi

07-06-2007, 12:49

susiehomemaker

07-06-2007, 12:55

:hugs: If you where nearby I would go buy one for you. Take a deep breath & just go and get the test. Better to know now- you might be worrying about nothing. You wont be any worse off for knowing today rather than tomorrow and you might save yourself 24 hours of worry. (lol- although if you are like me you will worry until af turns up anyway.....) Good luck hunny.

Mischief

07-06-2007, 13:14

Have no idea how it happened:rolleyes:, oh thats right i was watching my favourite black singer Seal, shirtless with tight leather pants and a couple of bottles of wine and hubby nearby;).

HAHA!

Bewitched, take a test. :) I have everything crossed for you! I had a *scare* last week...its OK to feel scared, just get a test for your peace of mind. At least then you will know one way or the other. (DONT GET PREGNOSIS!..LOL They are EVIL tests!)

Bewitched

07-06-2007, 16:01

Join the club.:D

My fourth is an oopsy too!

Have no idea how it happened:rolleyes:, oh thats right i was watching my favourite black singer Seal, shirtless with tight leather pants and a couple of bottles of wine and hubby nearby;).

Hmmmm, my situation was similar....too many glasses of red wine, Johnny Depp on tv and hubby next to me..!!

Ta Mischief, will steer clear of Pregnosis. I will get a test tonight if i can, thanks all you lovely gals for your words of support, chat later tonight :hugs:

FourAngelKisses

07-06-2007, 16:03

My fourth was an oopsie too. :laughing:

So was my 3rd, but I was on the pill with him.

Bewitched

08-06-2007, 07:15

Morning gals,

guess what???..........

The test was negative!!! :smiliedance: phhheeeeeew

~rambox~

08-06-2007, 07:17

That is great news for you i bet thats a huge weight lifted :hugs:

Bewitched

08-06-2007, 07:28

Ooooh yeah, thanks hun! :kiss:

Still no sign of this stupid period though, i suspect it will arrive on the weekend when i don't want it ;)

~rambox~

08-06-2007, 07:29

That nasty witch always shows up when you dont want her :D

Bewitched

08-06-2007, 07:33

That nasty witch always shows up when you dont want her :D

Thats true, so i told hubby over the phone just now that we might not get the weekend he 'wants' because Aunty Flo is coming to visit....and my 4 year old son next to me says "Have i got an Aunty Flo?" and i said "No, but Mummy does" hehehe :laughing:

~rambox~

08-06-2007, 07:38

Thats true, so i told hubby over the phone just now that we might not get the weekend he 'wants' because Aunty Flo is coming to visit....and my 4 year old son next to me says "Have i got an Aunty Flo?" and i said "No, but Mummy does" hehehe :laughing:

:laughing::laughing: rofl that is soo cute

Bewitched

11-06-2007, 12:43

I tried to pm rambox, but as i can't i will have to annoy everyone here by posting another paranoid moment - sorry gals :o There is still no sign of my period, it's now four days late...should i do another test or wait a bit longer?? I'll be freaking out until i start bleeding i just know it!! Because i have heard some girls still go through a period or two when they first get pregnant :confused: Told you all, i'm paranoid!

catalicious

11-06-2007, 12:45

:fingerscrossed: You get the answer you are hoping for!!!!

1+1=5

11-06-2007, 12:55

Hokey Pokey

11-06-2007, 12:57

Ohhhhhhh :fingerscrossed: you get the result you want ;)

Bewitched

11-06-2007, 13:00

Thanks girls:hugs: , i think i will go buy another test....i will check back in later with the result (if i'm brave!) :(

Hokey Pokey

11-06-2007, 13:28

Thanks girls:hugs: , i think i will go buy another test....i will check back in later with the result (if i'm brave!) :(

Good luck! :fingerscrossed:

ThreePinkFaireez

11-06-2007, 14:37

Good luck!

Hokey Pokey

11-06-2007, 15:10

Thanks girls:hugs: , i think i will go buy another test....i will check back in later with the result (if i'm brave!) :(

Did you test yet?

Eloise&Charlie'sMum

11-06-2007, 15:14

Hi sorry to stick my nose in but I have been following this thread for a couple of days now and I am dying to know...have you tested yet and if so what did it say ??????

Queen

11-06-2007, 15:27

I tried to pm rambox, but as i can't i will have to annoy everyone here by posting another paranoid moment - sorry gals There is still no sign of my period, it's now four days late...should i do another test or wait a bit longer?? I'll be freaking out until i start bleeding i just know it!! Because i have heard some girls still go through a period or two when they first get pregnant Told you all, i'm paranoid!

:hugs: Babe, do the test...you are freaking yourself out, for what may be nothing. The more you stress the longer AF will take...TRUST ME...
:hugs: Do a test...then you'll know either way....

:fingerscrossed: Hope you get the results you want

Bewitched

11-06-2007, 16:44

Well here's the latest - i got a dud test!! aaaaagh! After all the stress of the last one (i did a test a few days ago and it was negative) and i have just tried again today and nothing came up at all :( I assume this means it's a dud and now i will have to get another one??...:mad: There is no sign of this period at all, i don't even have my lower back cramps, i guess i am hoping for the miracle spontaneous flood without symptoms this time :fingerscrossed:

Verdi

11-06-2007, 18:08

Oh bummer about the test!!!

If it's positive you will have to sue Johnny Depp for making you horny!!:D

Queen

11-06-2007, 22:13

:hugs: Bummer about the test!!!! :hugs: Heres hoping you get the results you want.....SOON:o

11-06-2007, 22:29

Oh bummer about the test!!!

If it's positive you will have to sue Johnny Depp for making you horny!!:D

:laughing:

Hope you get the result you are after. :hugs:

Dea

11-06-2007, 22:34

good luck ... took me days to doa test with my no 4 .. then when it came up positive i threw it .. did another hoping it would come up negative ... i had sold all my baby stuff 3 weeks prior to all this .. DH was suppossed to have the snip & failed to go as we were fighting... hence no 4 ... but we have survived & she is my world .. she has completed me & our family ... in more ways then one & im so happy for my little accident ...

good luck hun ....

~rambox~

12-06-2007, 06:50

I hope things work out for the best for you :fingerscrossed:

Bewitched

12-06-2007, 10:23

Oh bummer about the test!!!

If it's positive you will have to sue Johnny Depp for making you horny!!:D

haha yes Candyn i think i would make a good case for that!

However.....drum rolll......Aunty Flo arrived - this morning!!! YAY!!! On the biggest freight passenger train there is sadly :crying: , so i am in AGONY, but it's a small price to pay! :smiliedance: Thanks everyone for your support, i really appreciate you girls looking out for me, i'd be lost without you! :hugs:

fludo

12-06-2007, 14:22

Must be a relief for you!

I must say about your DH being booked in for a vascetomy in 2 weeks ..... my sister-in-law got pregnant a few weeks before her DH was due for a vasectomy and she was on the pill! (missed just 1 pill!) So, it does happen!