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blubber
04-06-2007, 22:15
My Dh, whom i love dearly and misses his girls while away is often away for work on short notice.
Yesterday saw him go to Longreach for two days. Home for and hour them out for a work dinner.

My problem, we have in the past 8 months gone from working together and sharing experiences to me becoming a SAHM. Actually our whole life together has seen us work and live together.

I am feeling really jealous of the opportunities he is still getting. DOn't get me wrong i love my girls and the roll i have to play in their lives but I am feeling starved of opportunities. Probably doesn't help moving to a new town.

Has anyone experienced this.

He tells me that he misses doing what we used to do but financially we cannot affors to change our way of doing things ATM.

2s'nuff
05-06-2007, 21:47
:hugs: it must be really hard seeing what you could be doing, but not being about to do it. Are you able to do any part time work either with what you used to do or something new?

After 5 months at home with #1 and 4 months at home with #2, I felt like I was going stir crazy. Maybe you need to get out, get some adult conversation that doens't involve kids and get your brain working on something other than your kids routines/daily life.

kewlchicmum
06-06-2007, 22:59
Hey hun :hugs: to you I think mousebrown is very wise cause that was what I was thinking of saying before I read what she wrote...I felt the same from working full time to being a SAHM which I love but found it really hard at first and some days now I struggle with it but I know its not going to be that way for ever.