brideofjabba
13-01-2006, 15:13
How are you doing?
The book i got out was called Miscarriage - why it happens and how best to reduce your risks. Its by Henry M Lerner.
Its doesn't really deal alot with emotions but more the technical/medical aspects. For me that really helped, understanding why it happened in the first place. I am the type of person who just deals with grief by crying alot and then getting on with life...well trying to as best i can. Maybe not the best way, but it's all i know how to do.
I am still bleeding too. Though its only been a week since it happened. Last night i still had a piece of tissue come out. I thought i would be passed all that :confused: It is just brown spotting today with lots of cm...it really stretchy, shiny cm....if i was ttc i would be thinking i was going to ovulate! :confused:
I am feeling the same way you are. Sometimes i am fine, i feel like we are ready to jump right in and try again. The next i feel very sad and weepy, just wanting my baby, kwim? Then sometimes i feel like we should wait a little while to make sure i'm all healthy and lose some weight! lol
Someone told me its a rollercoaster. Its definately that all right.
I hope you start to feel better soon. Just yell if you need anything.
The book i got out was called Miscarriage - why it happens and how best to reduce your risks. Its by Henry M Lerner.
Its doesn't really deal alot with emotions but more the technical/medical aspects. For me that really helped, understanding why it happened in the first place. I am the type of person who just deals with grief by crying alot and then getting on with life...well trying to as best i can. Maybe not the best way, but it's all i know how to do.
I am still bleeding too. Though its only been a week since it happened. Last night i still had a piece of tissue come out. I thought i would be passed all that :confused: It is just brown spotting today with lots of cm...it really stretchy, shiny cm....if i was ttc i would be thinking i was going to ovulate! :confused:
I am feeling the same way you are. Sometimes i am fine, i feel like we are ready to jump right in and try again. The next i feel very sad and weepy, just wanting my baby, kwim? Then sometimes i feel like we should wait a little while to make sure i'm all healthy and lose some weight! lol
Someone told me its a rollercoaster. Its definately that all right.
I hope you start to feel better soon. Just yell if you need anything.