Scared of who knows what

[Gloominous]

yep as the titel says, I am absolutly ****ting myself and I dont know why. this is bub #3 so you think I'd be and old hand at it now but :no: .

I find myself thinking, "what have I done" and "why couldnt I have been happy with two".

also after having 2 c/sections I think I want to have a vbac, so now i'm worried what if I cant do that too??

Anyone else being a sook or is it just me :confused:

[caitcam]

Hey dont be so hard on yourself. I really think that in doesnt matter if you have desperately wanted a baby or get a surprise, either way at some point you get the wobbles and the fear. I too am pgwith #3 and there are days when i really cant comprehend how I will manage with 3. I really think it is a normal process to deal with such fear. But it hard if you are also experiencing the wonderful early pg symptoms of tiredness and sickness. Somedays it can seem all too hard.
Just remember that we are here for you and will not judge you ! so if you need to voice your concerns or doubts we are here to support you!
:hugs:

[*Bec&Bel*]

Hey,
As caitcam said dont be so hard on yourself.
Dont worry your not the only one ****ting youself in a way. I guess its just apart of the whole pregnancy thing, some of us have a million things running through our heads, like one minute where happy the next we feel sad.
Dont we all just love these pregnancy hormones!
Try not to worry about the birth thing, just take the days as they go, and i'm sure what ever you do everything will work out just fine for you. Take care :hugs:

[Mamaduke]

yep as the titel says, I am absolutly ****ting myself and I dont know why. this is bub #3 so you think I'd be and old hand at it now but :no: .

I find myself thinking, "what have I done" and "why couldnt I have been happy with two".

also after having 2 c/sections I think I want to have a vbac, so now i'm worried what if I cant do that too??

Anyone else being a sook or is it just me :confused:

Exactly what I'm thinking at the moment...exactly!
I've just decided that I won't be trying to VBA2C with this baby (wrote about it in my VBAC choices thread) and now that m/s has kicked in I'm also thinking "why couldn't I have been happy with 2".

[bronny-jane]

i have waves of fear... like im fine with 3..what if 4's my downfall, can i realy deliver a baby myself..i want too... but will i be able too,

then what about going out , i love having a night off... how much will it cost me:laughing:

where will we all fit... we need a bigger car..oh and house, good thing we rent...

these are just thoughts i get everyday...but i know i'll be fine it'll work out, cause it has too right..i'll make it happen:D

[Gloominous]

Thanks at least I'm not the only sook here, I get what your saying about all getting the fear at some stage (pheww) and those hormones definately dont help! And as BJ said, It has to work out, Right?? (wonder if these will be famous last words?)

I went and read your Vbac Choices thread MD, Congrats on making a decision that your comfortable with. I hadnt even thought that I might not be "allowed" to have a vbac, have to wait and see I guess.

Thanks.