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bambino
12-01-2006, 10:27
So I have my FF chart all mapped, I am at my most fertile, my FF chart is stuck to the fridge door, DH has a look and makes a mental note, but do you think it sinks in to his head?? NO.

Bloody backyard renovations take priority now don't they :mad:
Every minute he is there doing something. Before work, after work, weekends and I am sure in his sleep.

He works and works and digs and digs and tires himself out that much that he is way too tired to BD.

Nearly every night, I try to make things all romantic hoping that for a few moments of his time he would turn his attention to me, but no luck. All I get is snoring as soon as his head hits the pillow. Even first thing in the morning seems to be a no go. You see he is an early bird, he gets up before the birds so by the time my alarm goes off he's walking out the door for work.

So in a fit of anger, I take the FF chart off the fridge door, tear it up and sneakily put it in his lunch box, so when he gets to work today and has lunch he will see it, so maybe he will get the picture.

Since we have been married all he talks about is starting a family and is telling ppl that we will be having babies hopefully soon. But he threw that idea out the window himself didn't he.

Well at least I will have a superb looking backyard when he's finished :rolleyes:

Sorry I am just having a winge as I am craving "us" time which DH seems to have no time for.

Valosgirls
12-01-2006, 10:56
Oh Sharon I just laughed and laughed - WELL DONE GIRL!! If he doesnt get the picture now upon opening his lunch box then .... :rolleyes:

Im so sorry though that you are having trouble though - that fertile window is so darn small it really aggrivates me when i know we missed it and you have to wait a whole month before it rolls around again. Somehow I dont think the whole 72hr fertile window part sinks in with them? Sometimes I think men just think you can pregnant at anytime of the month.

I hope today is an eyeopener for your DH:)

JATS
12-01-2006, 11:17
Good luck Sharon, Men are just clueless aren't they?

Amy

Pixie
12-01-2006, 11:32
I look forward to the follow up lol hope he gets the message!!!

bambino
12-01-2006, 11:34
It's funny isn't it... when all boys talk about is sex, but come to the nitty gritty it's a different story.

But though, I actually also think it may be revenge. When we first moved in together, all he ever wanted to do was have sex, and most of the time I didn't. I had a really low sex drive back then. (about 4 years ago that is).

But now....look out whoa mumma it's all I want to do, anytime of the day or night. So I think a little he may be doing the same thing back to me. But it's more frustrating now as we are married and I want babies now so yes that little fertile window is extremely important to me now.

Crazy Monkey
12-01-2006, 11:36
Men are so thick when it somes to things like this...
If he doesn't get the hint at lunchtime, maybe you need to go on strike in the bedroom until next month....:D just an idea... maybe then he'll get the hint..

Good luck

bambino
12-01-2006, 11:44
Hey Nat....I just had a squizz at your website. It's unreal. You have done a great job. Best wishes and good luck.

Pixie
12-01-2006, 12:33
Aww thank you :D

bambino
12-01-2006, 12:42
I left a little message in your guestbook also.