My baby is having a baby!! WOW

[ashleigh's mum]

Hi all,
I have signed up on this site in the hope of getting some positives for my teenage daughter who is 10 weeks and having bouts of uncertanty and depression. I would really appreciate if anyone could give her some hope and positives of having her baby. This should be such a special time for her but at the moment it is all doom and gloom.
Pls Help!!!:;)

[ThomasMum]

Hiya ashleigh's mum, welcome to BubHub.

Congrats to your daughter and you. Good on you for giving your support to your daughter. Pls feel free to browse around.

Try to visit the section of "Younger Parent" here at, http://www.bubhub.com.au/community/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=47 we hope that you'll find one or two or more positive info there for your daughter.

Once again welcome and enjoy your stay.

Best wishes, :)

ThomasMum

[ETsMum]

Hi,
Maybe when she is in a good mood get her to read some of these posts:

Bub Hub Community Forums > Pregnancy > General chat
What do u love most about being a mum?

[sugar n spice]

ashelighs mum congrats to your daughter and well done for supporting her i have read so many stories and heard many where there child is too scared to tell their parents and their parents don't support them. that is only my opinion. Anyway your child should be enjoying this stage in her life. Yes it will be a huge change for her but with you by her side changes will be able to be overcome more easily with you there to offer support and help. i myself am a young mum. i had my child at 18 (pregnant at 17, though i was engaged) and my second child at 21. If you daughter would like to chat or email me then i would be happy to lend and ear and some cyber support. Oh and welcome to the bub hub it really is a truly friendly and supportive site.
rachel

[Refresh]

Hi:)

COngrataltions to your daughter:D I hope she starts to enjoy her prognancy and the prospect of being a mum. I hope you enjoy Bubhub and hopefully she will as well!

Take care
xxx

[ashleigh's mum]

ashelighs mum congrats to your daughter and well done for supporting her i have read so many stories and heard many where there child is too scared to tell their parents and their parents don't support them. that is only my opinion. Anyway your child should be enjoying this stage in her life. Yes it will be a huge change for her but with you by her side changes will be able to be overcome more easily with you there to offer support and help. i myself am a young mum. i had my child at 18 (pregnant at 17, though i was engaged) and my second child at 21. If you daughter would like to chat or email me then i would be happy to lend and ear and some cyber support. Oh and welcome to the bub hub it really is a truly friendly and supportive site.
rachel
Thanks for that i will get her to email you and hopefully you can give her some positives.:)

[ashleigh's mum]

Hi Ashleigh's Mum :)... How old is your daughter?

Hi,
Ash is turning 18 on wednesday.

[bekkyboo]

Congrats to you and your daughter.

Your title also grabbed my attention, as i am the youngest of 4 ( i have 2 older brothers and a older sister) and my mum has been telling ppl her baby is having a baby.

Its great to see that your daughter has the support from you, i have had alot of friends in the same situation as your daughter and they couldnt count on their mums.

Im a couple of years older (im 21 and 17 weeks pregnant) but i id be happy to lend a cyber ear to your daughter as well.

[ashleigh's mum]

Hey,
Thanks for your support, hopefully I can get her to come on and chat, I think it will help her a great deal:)

[cobysmummy]

hey... congrats to u and ur daughter... i am a young mum.. i was 17 and still in year 12 when i found out i was pregnant,.. i finished year 12 and gave birth to my son in march...

good on you for supporting ur daughter... it really helps having the love and support of her family...

i am willing to talk to her via email or msn.. it helps having people the same age in the same situations... maybe get her to look around for a young mums or parents group in your area...

i went to the one at stafford and i loved it... a way to meet more people again in the same situation...

congrats again...

[ashleigh's mum]

Hey,
Thanx for ur encouragement, I hope all of this positive feedback will help my baby girl.
PS Coby is georgeous:)

[Peaceangels]

Hi & welcome Ashleigh's mum - what a lucky girl Ashleigh is to have a mum like you! :) (the fact that she has you by her side throughout this journey is very special indeed!!)

May you and your daughter find all the helpful advice and support you need around here!

Look forward to chatting with you more.

[ashleigh's mum]

Thankyou for your kind words and support, i look forward to chatting with you.
:)

[brooke]

[COLOR="Magenta"]ashleighs mum- congrtaulations.. you are going to be a grandma! yay.. and your daughter will be a mum!
She is very lucky to have such a supportive mum.. I know most mums would freak out at the thought of their teenage daughter having a baby! She is very lucky!

It is scary for a teenager to be pregnant expecially if she had plans for her future! There is nothing to say that she still cant follow her dream.. they will now just include some one else.. some one very important who she will become to love more than anyone in the whole world! HER OWN BABY!
No one is saying it is going to be asy.. but it is very rewarding!

My mum gave birth to me at 18 and she is the most wonderful and fantastic mother in the whole world.. I wouldnt be the person I am today with out her and she wouldnt change anything for the world! Yes my parents struggled a little when I was younger but after working hard she is very sucessful as a mother and in her career!

I hope she cheers up soon.. this is one of the most special and rewarding times in her life... and this is only the beginning!

Well done!

[shed]

My mother is also saying that her baby is having a baby. I am the youngest and this will be her first grandchild.

I'm 36 though :D

[ashleigh's mum]

Hi,
Thanks for your words of encouragement, I can only hope that ash gets through all of the doubt and uncertainty and starts to enjoy this pregnancy and gets to feel the love and joy of being a mum. I know I have felt so much love and joy with my 4 daughters (along with the tears and tantrums!!), even though there have been many tough times especially when I had 3 under 5 as a single mum, but I would not change a day of my life since the birth of my children, I can only hope that Ash will give herself the chance to feel this.
Congratulations on Paige Grace she is beautiful and hers is one of the names I suggested to Ash!!:).
Sil:)

[ashleigh's mum]

My mother is also saying that her baby is having a baby. I am the youngest and this will be her first grandchild.

I'm 36 though :D

Know matter how old you get you will always be her baby. Congratulations and good luck.:)

[maybe1more]

Hi ashs mum, its great to hear how suportive you are of your daughter, thats so heart warming. you daughter is very lucky to have such a caring mother. There a thread in her for young mums if your daughter what to chat to mums in her age group, she should be proud, the art of conception is amazing and she will have loads of suport from us:D

[Mum2Bug]

Hi Ash's mum. Its great that you are being so supportive of your daughter and congrats to you both on the impending arrival of a beautiful new family member. I remember my mum once telling me that she couldn't believe her baby (my sis) was having a baby. I dont think my mum expected to be a grandma at 38. And now 18 years later i have added to the group as well. Mum is like a new grandma all over again. without her support i dont know where i would be.

as you can tell we are all very supportive of each other and would all be happy to chat with your daughter and show her some of the positives to expecting a beautiful bub. Hope to continue chatting with you as well.

take care!

[maddys_mum]

Hey
Congrats to you both.
I was 17 when i fell pregnant. Im willing to help her out as much as i can.
My email addy is shanz81@hotmail.com.
If she would like to email me or add me to msn I would love to chat to her!
Good Luck to you both!

[Mum&bubs]

Congrats to both of you!! If she wants someone to talk to or you for that matter you can always PM me. We are both the same age so should have alot in common :)

[Hokey Pokey]

Hi!! Congrats on being an up coming Grandma!!
I had my first at 15 and my second at 19. Your daughter is more than welcome to email me!! :thumbsup:

[natasha]

Welcome!!:wave:

[EskimoMumma]

hey i was 16 when i fell pregnant with my DS and yea my mum said "my baby is having a baby" still does! :laughing: (im not pregnant, dont get any wron ideas lol)

if she needs any support/advice from fellow younging ( im now 21) shes more then welcome to pm me

[Tisme]

Congrats and Thank you on behalf of ALL daughters (regardless of age) for being supportive of this time in her life. My Mum is over the moon about having the kids (as toddlers) but was less than impressed at me being pregnant ... but that was just her.

I'm going to ask one thing though: is the father involved? (I'll pull my head back in, I was just curious)

[Angelmist♥]

Congratulations to you and your daughter! She should find heaps of support and encouragement on here!I fell pregnant with my first at 19 and it can be very hard. I don't mean to pry, but is the father in the picture?

[tyhleigha & izaiah's mum]

congrats to you and your daughter :smiliedance:

i was 16 when i feel pregnant and i went on to finished school etc

if she wants to chat sometime just pm me

[bronny-jane]

hey, im sure if she was comfortable to join she'd fit right in here:wave: :D

[CJJHRA]

welcome to bubhub. :wave:

[Fairyfloss]

Hi:wave: and Welcome to bubhub, I am sure you will have lots of fun and great advice in here, hope your DD feels better soon:hugs:

[wana_b_lil_mama]

thats great...it is certainly a blessing she has been given earlier than most ladies here who are waiting still!!

[draught]

Given that the OP has not been on the forum for over 7 months we might close this thread. I am sure that if she returns she will be happy to read all the positive comments posted.