should we tell

[sairpaul]

Hi Just wondering whether or not to tell people about our news? I got a call from my dr today i can't get in till next tuesday ops been cancelled. So nothing confirmed till then. GRRR. Well i did a fourth one different brand positive again do you think to soon to tell people close to us???

[Lil X-men]

I would but then I am soo impatient when I get a BFP andshout it from the roof tops!!
But just be sure to let everyone know that it is early days and that anything can happen so not to get too excited until you get past the 1st trimester:thumbsup:
Congratulations by the way on your :bfp: !!!!!!!!!!:smiliedance:

[tally]

Congratulations.. all the best for a healthy pregnancy.

I'm just over 10wks now and we still havent told close family.. A couple of friends and my mum & dad know and thats it. We must get around to telling soon lol..

Its up to you when you decide to tell everyone, personally i've enjoyed not having everyone know at this early stage.

:smiliedance:

[sairpaul]

MMM i know that's how we wanted to do it when the time came but now i was meant to go to hosp next week and all our family knew and to turn around and say no i'm not going now..... AAAAAAAAAARRGGHHHHHHHH

I'm happy but confussed and dh is being helpful but is at work and i just cant talk to him.

[RoarsomeMum]

:smiliedance: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

We told our Mum and Dad's and sisters after 7 different + Preg tests.. But some days, I wish we had kept it quiet longer.. Mostly cause everyone is like OMG your only 10 weeks, it feels like you have been pregnant forever!

[katherine]

i think, i would tell family. i told my mum and dad at 5 weeks when i first found out.

my way of thinking is that IF anything is to happen, then they are their to support you, rather then jsut sitting back wondering why youa re upset (lets hope that isnt the case... but that's how i would feel)

[sairpaul]

Thank you guys i think after my cup of tea and deep breaths i'm off to ring my grandparents they are the closest to me and live a fair distance away as long as they can keep quiet

[joshiesmum]

Congratulations ! we didn't tell anyone untill i went for my first scan then they put me back two weeks! so 14 weeks total nearly killed me DH made me promise not to tell. This time round i havn't been able to keep my mouth shut my whole mothers group know we are trying and all my friends so i guesse this will make it a little hard to keep it a secret when it happens. All the best

me 25
DH 28
DS 2 :devil6:
TTC# since jan 07

[McMama]

Congratulations! We told our immediate family very early, when I was about 5weeks. Then everyone else when I was 6weeks because I had severe morning sickness and couldn't hide it from anyone! But, if I hadn't been sick, I think I would have waited until 3mths.

[aden2005]

omg hun congrats:)
wow wow wow YAY!!! :bfp: :bfp: :bfp:

[ziggyzena]

Hi I would tell my best friend and the people that are very close to me who deal with me constantly talking to them about ttc if you know what i mean. good luck there is no right or wrong answer youll know in your heart who to tell and who not to tell!

[sairpaul]

Ok well I rang my grandparents and my pop cried and all nan cared about was she was able to shop.LOL. Told in laws as well all perfectly happy. Going to tackle my SIL tonight she will be happy but probably upset she isn't the first. Well i was doubting myself today didn't seem real enough so i came home and did three more tests lol all different brands all came up with lines so i guess it's real. I'm only about 4 weeks though. Go for bloods and obs next tues :fingerscrossed: