Were you nervous?

[Taddy]

Our wedding ain't until Ocotber. I am worried that I will be too nervous. I am quite shy always has been. Even got butterflys know. :o
Am I overreacting?
Were you nervous?

[MummyCharmzy]

Our wedding is in july and I'm feeling nervous, I dont like standing up in front of ppl especially when all eyes are on me... but in july there will be almost 200 eyes on me and dp... that thought scares me a lot!

I'm also scared of things going wrong in general!

Is there anything specific you're nervous about?

[Taddy]

I am also afraid something might go wrong.

Wow, 200 guests hey we are only having 40-50. Trying to only invite people we talk to so that cuts my mums family out. :laughing:

[Bron]

Not really. I was slightly nervous when walking to the church door, but as soon as I started walking down the aisle and saw him standing at the altar I wasn't nervous at all. I have never felt more certain about anything in my life, actually.

[MummyCharmzy]

I'm not nervous at all about the actually getting married part either! Its all the other people hehe

Natasha what kind of things are you scared might go wrong? Maybe there are things you (and I) can do to eleviate our fears like have a back up plan or two or three hehe :D

[Melo]

I'm not getting married until 2009 and OH MY! I'm so nervous already! :laughing:

[Shakey]

we had our wedding just over 4 years ago, and I wasn't nervous at all

when the day came I was kinda excited, i'm not usually one that likes to get up in frount of people, but that day I was happy to, don't know why

[Taddy]

But what if I trip on my dress or stuff the vows up? What if they all judge me?

I am not pretty at all. :no:

[Shakey]

none of that will happen :no:

but that reminds me, I was bridesmaid for a friend last year, and what happend when i was walking up the isle, I triped up the steps lol, was so embarrased, but no one cared

[mm85]

im getting married in october too and im nervous as anything too!!!
im scared nothing will go right and what if its not organised right like what if the people get there and theres no food or what if people forget and i get there and there is like 20 ppl there im scared ahahhahaha

[MummyCharmzy]

But what if I trip on my dress or stuff the vows up? What if they all judge me?

I am not pretty at all. :no:

hehehe I'm so glad you posted this, cos I worry about that stuff to! Vows though, dont we have to repeat them after the celebrant/priest whoever is marry you... I thought my celebrant is saying it first and then i repeat it? or am I crazy and now ill stress more lmao

[ButterflyMama]

I was nervous in a good way.. kind of like, I can't wait to see him..

When we got married it was like we were the only two people there, and no one else existed..

[kaybee]

Yes!!! I was so nervous, about something going wrong and about being in front of all those people (even though we only had 55)

It wasn't until I was about to leave for the ceremony that it got really bad, then when i got up the front with my DH and I nearly started crying, I ended up with a red nervous rash across my chest and shoulders during the ceremony! You can only just see it in some of the photo's. By the time we were signing the register it had gone down. It's a very emotional day, and I think it all got too much for me!

Sorry if this freaks you out! I hope it all goes smoothly for you!

[*Chels*]

Im getting married in just over 2 weeks.Im not nervous,Im the kind of person who loves attention!!LOL.Im just picturing walking down the aisle,everyone gasping at my beauty:laughing:
We are having the celebrant saying the vows then we repeat after.We were going to learn them but I dont know if I can trust myself not too stuff up!!
If you trip up or whatever,it might be mortifying at the time but you will look back and laugh!Nothing else matters,except you are marrying the love of your life.And if you are worrying about the guests judging,maybe you shouldnt be inviting them.They should all be there to celebrate with you,not laughing at you

[Egall]

i know I have a tendency to get nervous and tense on important occasions, but i was determined not to do it on my wedding day - no bridezilla here!

I just decided that I had done everything i could to ensure that everything would run smoothly and that what would happen would happen, and that as long as we were married by the end of the day, that's all that mattered. Any dramas - someone else would have to worry about. It worked for me. I had a lovely day, and just enjoyed being with my lovely new husband. Almost everything went to plan - and what didn't, I can't even remember now, because it didn't matter.

Just relax and enjoy it. no one is there to judge you, they all just want to enjoy your special day with you and the only thing that can really truly spoil it is if you get tense and upset. :D