it wont go away

[StrawberryTheMilkshake]

That URGE for another baby wont go away....

What do i do about it... we really were hoping to wait for 12 months.... it makes me cry.... :angel: :angel:

but then when our daughter is up all night i wonder if i could cope.... she wasnt a very settled baby and would only sleep for 2 hours every 48. :yes:

Can someone help me with this?

[iluvmeboyz]

i know what its like when i had my first he was insettled then things got better and we tried again im clukky now and are trying in april next yr
its normal to feel like this

[neostudded]

If you want another baby then have another baby!! :thumbsup:

[neostudded]

By the way i love your piccy :D

[bronny-jane]

i dont think theres a perfect time to plan gaps etc.... i like to just see what happens, bad days happen to everyone...and you will cope, because thats what you have to do:thumbsup:

have a chat with your dh, be honest too, my dd 1 and dd2 are 15 months apart... i think it doesnt matter the gap between one and two...its always going to be a massive change what ever the gap.... good luck:D

[StrawberryTheMilkshake]

thank you...

the reason we are waiting is because we would like to settle a little more financially.... i dont mean we are waiting for the right 'financial' time because i know that never usually comes... but we would be better off in 12 months or so and thought it would be better then...

Whats this urge? Does anyone know?

[2boysmama]

Maternal instinct.

My first DD slept through the night only a handful of times (handful = 5!) UNTIL SHE STARTED SCHOOL!!!

My second was an absolute dream sleeper. She couldn't get enough.

[bronny-jane]

Whats this urge? Does anyone know?

i have no idea, ive been trying to rid myself of it :laughing:

[TTannyaa]

I badly want another baby, I just have to convince my hubby :rolleyes: Go with your gut instinct. Goodluck :hugs:

[Shazbutt]

Like bronny-jane said...you WILL cope because you'll HAVE to. :yes:

I worried about the same thing when thinking about trying for DD2. My DH works away, and i'm left on my own during the week, with no family around us. It was hard at first, and still is, but i AM doing it, and would never take back the decision to have her. (And we are tentatively thinking about another! :yelclap:)

If you want another bub....go for it! You won't know what it's actually like 'til you DO IT!

[BaDaBing]

I know how you feel. I have 2 and want 3 but have to wait. I notice pg women everywhere and I'm constantly thinking about it.

My DS2 was so much easier than DS1 but TBH I don't really notice the difference. I think you just adapt like you did when you have your first. I love having 2, they are always playing together and they are the best of friends. I have no regrets and you won't either :)

[brookeme]

If you want another baby then have another baby!! :thumbsup:
Good respose! Sometimes the simplest answer is the best, I guess no one can decide for you( or me)But it is a hard one. Good luck with your choice Im procrastinating over the decision too!:rolleyes:

[nats]

That URGE for another baby wont go away....

What do i do about it... we really were hoping to wait for 12 months.... it makes me cry....

but then when our daughter is up all night i wonder if i could cope.... she wasnt a very settled baby and would only sleep for 2 hours every 48.

Can someone help me with this?


I get obsessed too :rolleyes: I put it down to being a scorpio :D I'll adapt :yes:

[Angelmist♥]

From my experience, you can't get over that urge until you have another child.I had both DS's 13mths apart and DH didn't want anymore.

In my head neither did I but that urge kicked in when DS2 was around 6mths old and there was nothing I could do to get rid of it.It took 4.5yrs to talk DH into another but she's so worth it!

[bubblesox]

I am going through the same thing at the moment. We are in talks about a third and would love another child but still not 100% but can't get the thought out of my head!!!