saschas mum is leaving dh

[charli06]

Oh ladies, what a week ive had. Thanks for replying to my other postings you guys have made the world of difference. Yes i had a whinge , then i got help, now i know its time to go, snif. I really dont want to but last night dh was so angry (about a battery recharger of all things) i just looked at him and thought , u lunatic! We went shopping for groceries and he really snapped at poor sascha, "SHUT UP NOW" i thought to myself the poor thing is just a toddler and dh doesnt even look after him full time. he didnt watch a movie with me as promised just went to bed (for a nap) before he did his tax (HE STill is holding back so i get no money, he is due 10k) BUT as usual he didnt do it and hasnt done it today. He doesnt want to spend any time with us and went balistic about the fact that i have decided to go to tweedle for a break before i lose my mind, the community health nurse suggested it actually, the nurses can help me with sascha's lactose intolerance as well. So im looking for a job, sadly it will have to be full time as i have no money of my own but hey im doing it for sascha and myself

[Nickster]

Good on you, sweetie, it's a tough choice to make, but definitely the right one.

Everyone on bubhub is here for you to give you support every step of the way - just make sure you take your computer with you!:)

[JanetF]

Excellent news! Sometimes it takes something so dramatic to help the other person see they REALLY need help. I hope this is the start of something great for you and healing for him. :)

[JATS]

Best of luck for your future, things will naturally be a bit up in the air for a while, don't worry, you'll find your feet soon. Take good care of yourself and your bub

[charli06]

OMG i have made this decision, stressed out! but oh well thats life. Gotta ring legal aide and find a job asap

[m-k-mum]

Good luck with everything :)

[sugar n spice]

Good luck i am sure it was a very hard decision. Do you have close family to support you in this time? Have a merry christmas, think of you

[charli06]

dont really know anyone is melbourne its a hard decision, stay or move to sydney

[lukaelmo]

You be strong little chicken and take one day and decision at a time.

A long long time ago I was married to a man that I did not love, get along with, or even to think of it, like. After 7 long years (2 of marriage) of unhappiness, shouting, yelling, screaming, crying and sadness, I finally screwed up the courage to leave him.

I took things one day and decision at a time. I tried not to think too far into the future, and that worked for me

I have never looked back.

Merry Christmas Saschasmum.

[JanetF]

There are loads of bubhubbers in Melbourne. Just put out an ahoy and a meetup will happen. I believe there's a Xmas one coming up.

[H&B'sMum]

Good luck SM you are very brave for doing this but you know you are doing it for the right reasons.
Take time to adjust and get use to being a single mum and take each day as it comes. You will be soon back on your feet and not looking back.

Hopefully you ex will realise what he has lost and will get the help he needs to become a better person.
Good luck and we are all here for you.

[charli06]

thanks hun , p.s harry is such a cutie pie!

[Ana Gram]

It's going to be tough but good on you for making a tough choice. In the end it will most likely benefit you and your children greatly.

Stay strong and good luck!

[W & T's sleepy mummy]

Oh sashcasmum, what a hard decision to make. I know you must be feeling very sad and confused - but sometimes its the hardest choices that are the best (sorry - hallmark moment!). I left my ex when Will was 12 weeks old - could not handle the abuse any more - much like yourself. Although it was incredibly hard, it was the best thing I have ever done. Will changed from the moment we left him - he was so much happier because I was happier, and he no longer protected his face with his little hands (I sooo don't want to know why that developed). Neway, good luck and know that you have lots of love and support from everyone and I wish you and Sascha the very best. You both deserve it. :)

[melbell]

best of luck

[Daddyof2]

Hi i have been following this thread with my wife mel. Until now i havn't known what to sya. But good on you for leaving. It took Mel to leave me before we were married to realise what i had, and i worked hard to get through the problems i had just so i could have mel and the irls back on my life. I hope everything works out for you.

:)

[Jaileth]

Congrats on a hard choice. I hope that this is the start of a fab new life for you and sashca!

[Bron]

Good luck. What a difficult time for you - I wish you all the very best. You are stronger than a lot of women.