are you going to find out?

[Kizmet]

Coming up to the 20 week ultrasound-fair way off I know :laughing: but are you going to find out the sex of the baby?

We will try but both times with DD she physically crossed her legs every time the sonographer tried to have a look so we figured she must be a stubborn girl like mer mummy and she is! well and truely! :laughing:

[goose]

Nope :no:

Didnt with DS and wont this time..
I like the surprise...

[melbryan]

I am not the surprise type of person don't think I can bare it a bit of a control freak. I wish I had waited for No. 1 but by no.3 I definitely want to find out.

[mumof2angels]

Hi I think i want to find out so I know if I need to buy boys clothes but then again as its our last baby a surprise would be nice too, so we'll have to decide soon although there is still 11 weeks till the scan.

Me 31 DH 29 Valentine
DD1-4 DD2-2 :hugs:
EDD#3 13th Nov 2007 :smiliedance:

[mummy2sophie]

Nope. Didn't find out with no.1 and won't this time either. Really want a boy. I know it makes no sense but I feel I might jinx it if I find out early. I'm also worried that I might be disappointed if I find out it's a girl. So I figure....I'll find out on their birthday. Hopefully I'll be so relieved that everything went ok :fingerscrossed: that I won't care if it's a boy or girl.

I don't think I'll be disappointed. There are many advantages to having another girl. DD is more likely to be closer friends if it's a girl. We can also recycle all of her clothes too. :thumbsup:

You can't find out at 20 weeks!! It's opening the Christmas pressie early!!! :p

[Moops]

Im absolutely going to find out!!! I hate surprises, im the type that will raid the house to try and find my christmas presents!

I want to do the nursery for a boy or a girl and buy appropriate clothes so i will def be finding out. I am secretly hoping for pink though so i hope im not disappointed.

Is 20 weeks the earliest you can find out??

[Kez872]

Yes definately,
My DD had her legs closed too all the way through the ultrasound, this time:fingerscrossed: for a boy!!! (dont want any more girls)
Kez

[kaybee]

No I think I want a surprise, although the months of waiting will kill me!!!

[perrywinkle]

Well we found out with DS so I thought we would find out with this one but DH doesn't want too. I still want to know but I don't think I could hide it from DH some how. We'll probably make our minds up walking in there LOL!!!

[EcstaticEm]

I want to know!!!!!! but im not sure if chris really wants to know!

We will be very very suprised if it is not a boy, cause Chris's family have a very dominant male gene! Grr!

[Hoping]

I definitely want to know, especially since we will be setting up our nursery for our little bub. DH's parents are already convinced that its a boy, but boy or girl I don't care as long as bub is healthy and normal.

[Vespera]

Nope

Not sure how I am going to do it but I want it to be a surprise. AND there is no way DH will let me find out

[mini_me]

You can't find out at 20 weeks!! It's opening the Christmas pressie early!!! :p

:laughing: Umm i dont know about you, but i was a sneek a peek child before C-mas LOL didnt help with my Bday being 3 days before LOL

I wanted to find out with DD but she mooned us on tape and rocking back and forth so we couldnt see hmmm I spent the last 18 weeks wrecked my head as to what sex 'they' were. Wasnt pleasant and drove me insane :laughing: never again, im booking for 4d u/s something that wasnt really heard of with scarlett, and ill find out one way or another!!! :thumbsup:

[jaasssy82]

I DEF WANT TO KNOW!!! hope its pink:idea:

[mini_me]

Hey hun wanna swap if i get a girl and you have another boy :laughing:

Nah ill be happy whatever the outcome :thumbsup:

[MrsX]

Absolutely :yes: There is no way DH would NOT want to find out :p I cant take that type of suspense :laughing:

[mummy2sophie]

My DH is thinking of finding out this time. I've told him though, that we can't (as I said before).

I don't really go for decorating the nursery. We rent our place so we can't paint or anything. Besides I prefer gender neutral decorations. We have a bit of a fish theme going in Sophie's room with animal curtains.

I did get into buying pink clothes though. It's hard to buy little else for a girl. So if it's a boy I'm either going to have to put him in Sophie's old pink clothes or buy new stuff. Would it be so bad to put him in pink??

[mummy2sophie]

oh I forgot to say. I love surprises!! I'd love to have a surprise party thrown for me one day.

Like the time my siblings and I organised a surprise 40th anniversary party for my parents....it was awesome. It's seems oh so sad now...

[NicNac72]

DH and I found out with the first two, but considering this is most probably be our last bub, we are going to have a surprise...

I know DH would really like to find out, but he is happy to wait until the day.... He would so love another princess.... Although I do have a feeling it will be a boy!

[Roxy76]

i used to always want to find out and never understood why you wouldn't!

now that i am pregnant i am thinking i want a surprise! but then again i would love to know so can prepare, go SHOPPING!! decorate nursery etc

My DF wants to find out definitely!

so yeah i sort of don't, but I know I will cave in! :laughing:

[Duchessa]

Surprise for us too. We like surprises :D

[melbryan]

I wish I could wait but I am hopeless with surprises for myself I can keep everyone else secrets except for my own.
I wish they told me no we can't tell you, then I can't find out even if I wanted to. Dh wants surpirse keeps your legs closed bubba, we don't want to know.

[KirstyF]

I definitely want to know. I want to start buying things but don't want to just buy yellow or purple - neutral colours. My DH is hoping for blue and I don't mind, just want to know now!


Do I really have to wait til week 20?

[tally]

I'm pretty sure i'll find out, not sure about DH yet..:D

[Kittylou]

We didn't find out with our first and won't find out again this time. Part of me would love to know but I'm also looking forward to the surprise.

[Lozie]

yep to confirm what i already know :laughing: i do belive this one is a girl based on the way i'm feeling not sick anymore! Not craving tomatoes juice or any other bitter stuff or junk just fruit and heathy foods for me , all different than with both of the boys cause being preg with the boys was the same in everyway! and this one VERY different!