OMG Im gonna TTC in 2008

[Lirael]

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[HelenHasTwins]

Good for you:smiliedance:

[*~alegna~*]

Congratulations on making that decision.

Just curious as to how much $ that would be per cycle? Would they charge for the actually insemination & donation separatly or as one?

*tell me to but out if too nosey*:o

[nemosmum]

Aww a lil bubba to fill that gorgeous Infinity:D

Gd luck E:hugs:

[Lirael]

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[Beany]

Good for you! Proves we have evolved well past needing those pesky males that just leave their shoes lying around for a child to chew on ... :D

Are you going to be aiming for any month in particular or just when you're all set up?

[*~alegna~*]

its $1289 per cycle, but after you hit your medicare safety net it goes to around $150 a cycle. they said after 2 cycles you will be at the safety net.:yes: oh and they have a once off fee of $485 for the testing they need to do and stuff before you go ahead.
the semen itself is free(its illegal to buy in aus)

Oh, Ok. Well thats pretty reasonable.:yes:

Good luck with it all! Keep us posted huh!?:hugs: xxx

[Ashleigh<3]

Wonderful news! :hugs:

I wish I had some baby making magic stuff to help you on your way, might be cheaper too!:laughing:

:smiliedance:

[Lirael]

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[Lirael]

LMAO Ash :D

[nuddle]

wow well done on making that decision, can I ask, are you single? or can your partner not have kids?

[Milliner]

oooh how exciting!!!! Good luck!!!!!!

[Lirael]

Im single, I have 2 kiddies already, 4 and 2 1/2.

[nuddle]

Im single, I have 2 kiddies already, 4 and 2 1/2.
good on you for not letting that stop you....

[Lirael]

of course, if between now and then I meet a fantastic loving guy who wants more or his own kids, I may re think things. but Im not going to wait til its 'too late' KWIM and regret it. i really want at least one more.

[nuddle]

of course, if between now and then I meet a fantastic loving guy who wants more or his own kids, I may re think things. but Im not going to wait til its 'too late' KWIM and regret it. i really want at least one more.
do you mind if I ask how old you are?

[Lirael]

good on you for not letting that stop you....

things have come a long way.. same sex couples can access donors as can singles. there are no reasons why either cant.

I dont need a man to complete me, and if I cant find one who wants the same things as me and accepts my 2 kids as his own, why should I give up on my family because of that? KWIM?:)
oh and im almost 23. so i will be 25 when and if a baby is born

[nuddle]

good luck with it.

[Lirael]

thanks. I cant help but think you have more to say, you can PM me if you want :)

oh and thanks everyone else for not judging me, and for your well wishes :D

[oleander]

Congratulations emevity!

I have made some enquiries myself regarding donor sperm and insemination. Apparently Adelaide is the only state that dosen't do it. Can I ask what state you live in?

Also wondering do you have a choice which donor you use? Do you have to find him yourself or do they provide the sperm?

[Lirael]

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[oleander]

Thanks for that:)

If I went down this path I would definately prefer an anonymous donor

All the best to you TTC:thumbsup:

[Lirael]

thanks hun :)

the way I see it, (and pls dont think I am nasty, but its easier to explain this way) its cleaner and safer than having casual sex to fall pregnant and I would prefer to not fall pregnant to someone who doesnt want the baby, or who causes problems for the rest of the babies life etc.

the last thing I want is to have a baby whose father doesnt/didnt want it. :(

[oleander]

My thoughts exactly:yes:

[Ashleigh<3]

thanks. I cant help but think you have more to say, you can PM me if you want :)

oh and thanks everyone else for not judging me, and for your well wishes :D

Annnnnnnddd why would we judge you?


You are Mother eager to be another Mother to another beautiful child, hey maybe more. :)

There are so many Mother's out there that play the role of the Mother and the Father, maybe not by choice, but it works, even Dad's handle this double role.

I can't wait to hear more! :hugs:

[HelenHasTwins]

As I said before Emevity...I think it is great...if this is what you want ...go for it:thumbsup:

I know I would probly be doing the same thing if I did not have my wonderful DH as I would not want to miss out on having the presious gift of a child....

Good Luck

Helen

[Beany]

Are you planning to start trying to concieve in November 2008 then or November this year?

[rynosmum]

I've done some heavy editing on this thread.

Please keep your comments positive and on-track.

Emevity is sharing something here with all of us. It would make more sense to give her our support and learn something in the process than being negative and off-track.

[babylover111]

Oh congratulations Cel!!! That's fantastic news :smiliedance:

[Niki]

congratulations on deciding to have another baby hun

[aden2005]

Thats awesome news hun :)
I would do the exact same thing if i didnt have a partner :thumbsup:

Luv,
Katherine-xxx-

[jen3]

Good luck for 2008:fingerscrossed:

Hope all of your wishes come true!!

[Lirael]

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[tootiredtosleep]

I think I'm a bit sheltered, I thought that only happened in the movies! I guess I never had to think about it before.

I think its fantastic to have that opportunity!

:yelclap: for all the sperm donators out there!!