charli190206
23-03-2007, 14:33
hey i need some advice
when i was 3 months pregnant i broke it off with him because he was to into his drugs and alchol and i wasnt into it and didnt feel it was a good environment for my baby. he then started the bs that it wasnt his sending texts calling me **** etc. he then ignored me till the last 2 weeks i had left. when she came he was speeding off his head (the only reason i let him come in cause i thought no matter what he deserves to see his child being brought into this world)
then it started the excuses not to come round and see her and when he wanted to and rang me at the last minute he'd yell at me sayin i work to support my childetc (a whole 6 dollars a week) i wanna be part of her life etc. well now she older just turned 1 i have started stayin at his house with her 2 times a week (he still lives with mum) and he still winges at me that he wants to be part of her life . which i thought he was but obviously im always wrong. i then replied i dont have to stay here im doing it to be nice when was the last time u came to my house over 4 months ago so its not my fault. i have a new partner but have not told dd yet as im scared i think he still does drugs and im sick of him winging and cryin at me for nothing im the one that has always made an effort he just thinks or says im the one who needs to grow up help please im loosen my head is it me or is he bein achild
when i was 3 months pregnant i broke it off with him because he was to into his drugs and alchol and i wasnt into it and didnt feel it was a good environment for my baby. he then started the bs that it wasnt his sending texts calling me **** etc. he then ignored me till the last 2 weeks i had left. when she came he was speeding off his head (the only reason i let him come in cause i thought no matter what he deserves to see his child being brought into this world)
then it started the excuses not to come round and see her and when he wanted to and rang me at the last minute he'd yell at me sayin i work to support my childetc (a whole 6 dollars a week) i wanna be part of her life etc. well now she older just turned 1 i have started stayin at his house with her 2 times a week (he still lives with mum) and he still winges at me that he wants to be part of her life . which i thought he was but obviously im always wrong. i then replied i dont have to stay here im doing it to be nice when was the last time u came to my house over 4 months ago so its not my fault. i have a new partner but have not told dd yet as im scared i think he still does drugs and im sick of him winging and cryin at me for nothing im the one that has always made an effort he just thinks or says im the one who needs to grow up help please im loosen my head is it me or is he bein achild