OMG! shes driving my carzy

[jess_live_die]

i have a soon to be 4 year old and shes drivinf me crazy and im out of ideas as to what to do with her.
she wnt listen at all i ask her to clean up she crys, when she dosent get her own way she crys , she has wreaked so many of dd2 clothes coz she wont put hers on. if she has to go to bed she crys. her cring is driving me nuts i feel like giving her to her dad. when i teel her off she crys and when shes with her dad he gives her everything if if i told him shes been naughty if she gets in trouble at home someone runs to her aid i cnt handle her crying she wees coz she cnt be bother going to the toilet im just lost ive tried everything
somone please please help.

[roxanne22]

aww u poor thing i think it could be a phase that she is going through my daughter does the same at time and when she is naughty my sister usally runs and see wat she is upto makes it hard and very frustating at times and they do drive u mad that u wanna give em to there dad maybe give her more attention maybe she is feeling left out
hope this helps u arnt alone

[jess_live_die]

aww thanks i think she gets to much attention thats her prob grr its so hard with a naughty kids and then a sick one i dnt have the strength i did normally not much drived me crazy but lately its hit me

[psyminsays]

Hi jess

we are in the same boat, mate.. :) my DD is pretty much the same..and it's the same when she goes to her dad.
she thinks the sun shines out of his bum. lol

my DD is very arguementative and cheeky,
it breaks my brain some days.

i understand where you are coming from with the toileting issue too, my dd won't go when she needs to, thus weeing her pants when it's too late.

from my point of view, and i know it's the case with us, my poor DD is just confused.
i say 1 thing, her dad says the exact opposite,
she doesn't know weather she's coming or going. i put that down to her dad though, who like alot of ex's, enjoys being spiteful towards me.

how about a bit of a rewards system ? treats (stickers, small toys or a lolly) for good behaviour ? that's how we cope, my DD loves stickers.. but bad behaviour will result in No TV, no treats ect.

Keep on truckin' mate. that's my mantra. lol
if all else fails, vent, vent, vent.

Psymin xx