what have i ever done wrong

[hayleymummy2jakob]

just need to have a vent about my life
What have i done so wrong to feel like this im sick of being down in the dumps
i look at my life and think what do have to feel sad i have an adorable little boy.
but i just always fell unwanted.
Like no one notices me any more.
im not wanting sympathy or anything just wanted to get this of my chest it may not make sense.

But what p!sses me of even more is people always saying oh i bet you wish you wernt a single mum UMM why would i wish that
thats the hand i got dealt and i will deal with it
Yeah i am a single mum but i do a bloody good job doing it by myself

[♥Heaven Sent♥]

Aww hun big :hugs: to you,i havnt really got any advice but i just wanted you to know that we are here to talk to,you ARE a good mother and doing a great job:hugs:

[DaddyDan]

Sometimes i feel the same way..

I get so bad that i used to "hate" my life, but i have a beautiful wife and lil girl, so i'd get mad at myself for hating my life lol. it was round and round. I always felt so unwanted, and useless.

I dont know what to say to make you feel better. it took me leaving the country to change my view :/

[hayleymummy2jakob]

thankyou

[hayleymummy2jakob]

im feeling a bit better now:thumbsup:

[Jax Tellers Old Lady]

Hi just wanted to give you hugs:hugs:

Sometimes things can feel so hard and we think that we cant move on and be happy. It takes time and sometimes we need to take a step back and actually see what we have in life. Your a great mummy with a beautiful son and you should be proud. Your allowed to get down and cry whatever. Dont give up on yourself keep positive and i am sure things will improve.:hugs:

[damien's mum]

Aww Hun.. i don't know what to really say, just wanted to give you big :hugs: and let you know, that you must be doing a great job as a single mummie, as you seem so loving... :hugs:

[PunkyDiva]

:hugs:

Ignore people and/or their remarks that get you down.
Negativity is such a powerful tool so refuse to allow it into any aspect of your life.
**** things do happen but how you react/cope can and does govern the outcome.
You are doing a fantastic job and have a fantastic support network on BH (if you want) so hold that head high and immerse yourself in the joys of being a mummy who can wholly concentrate on her child without distraction.

:hugs: