bec77
11-03-2007, 23:19
It has been 7.5 weeks since my m/c and d&c and still no af!!!!!!
It is driving me up the wall, i get cramps and then nothing, how long should I wait till I see a doctor about it??
At first dp and I were going to try to concieve again straight away, but now we are having 2nd thoughts and thinking that we may wait 6 months, not sure if i want to wait or not, can not seem to make up my mind, i am desperate for another bub, but feel like it has been a year of hormones and emothions (2 m/c since last june) so i think that maybe a bit of time off for both of us, to not have to think about trying, being cautious and scared and then sad if i were to m/c again.
Anyone been in this situation, any advice would be great
The other thing is that I wanted my kids to be close in age and now due to circumstances they are going to be at least three years apart if i did try straight away and if all went well, so i sort of think now what is another 6 months really, when it hasn't worked out the way that we wanted, does it really matter?? :confused:
It is driving me up the wall, i get cramps and then nothing, how long should I wait till I see a doctor about it??
At first dp and I were going to try to concieve again straight away, but now we are having 2nd thoughts and thinking that we may wait 6 months, not sure if i want to wait or not, can not seem to make up my mind, i am desperate for another bub, but feel like it has been a year of hormones and emothions (2 m/c since last june) so i think that maybe a bit of time off for both of us, to not have to think about trying, being cautious and scared and then sad if i were to m/c again.
Anyone been in this situation, any advice would be great
The other thing is that I wanted my kids to be close in age and now due to circumstances they are going to be at least three years apart if i did try straight away and if all went well, so i sort of think now what is another 6 months really, when it hasn't worked out the way that we wanted, does it really matter?? :confused: