should i, should he?

[sexy_minx]

i know this has been asked befor but i wanna ask it again,

is it bad for the chick to propose to the guy?

we are gonna get married we will get engaged but not sure when, we look at rings all the time we have our eye on a ring for me just gotta get the money to buy it really, but i feel the need to propose to him deep down i wanna do it i even want to ask hes mum for her sons hand in marrige i have my eye on a ring for him and everything, he said he would wanna do it but wouldnt mind if i did it. if i were to ask him id buy hes ring 1st and give it to him, then wait a few weeks and get mine.. what do you all think??

[new_mummy82]

i say go for it!!! :yes: and i think asking his mum is a sweet idea Valentine

[sexy_minx]

ha ha she will prob say no tho thats one thing im more worried about! we dont always see eye to eye.

[jess_live_die]

:thumbsup: i say go for it

[Ashleigh<3]

I proposed to mine, we're getting married later this year. :)
If he's really shy like mine, but you know he loves you, do it.:laughing: :D :yes:

When you think about it, it's a bit silly saying, "only guys can propose, nerrr".

[mum to 2 angels]

Ive always believed that valentines day is the only day the woman can propose. Dont know where i got that from. Are u going to get down on one knee..:yelclap:

[RoarsomeMum]

:smiliedance: :smiliedance: You go girl!!!! I think its a GREAT idea!!!! And what a way to show you love him. Soooo exciting!!!! I cant wait to hear how u go!!!:smiliedance: :smiliedance:

[Little_Toad]

Look at it this way.. how much more excited/surprised would you be if he popped the question?

I still think it's the guys responsibility.

[sexy_minx]

. Are u going to get down on one knee..:yelclap:

i think i would as im gonna ask hes mum and stuff i should go all the way huh?!?

the way i kinda see it aswell is he asked me on our 1st date and asked me to "date" him, its my turn to ask him something hehe

[sexy_minx]

Look at it this way.. how much more excited/surprised would you be if he popped the question?

I still think it's the guys responsibility.


yeah it would be lovely for him to ask me, but i already know its gonna happen, i know the ring im geting i know it all as we have planed him doing it, but i wanna now shock and surprise him.

[damien's mum]

i say go for it!!! :yes: and i think asking his mum is a sweet idea Valentine

Yup i agree!!

[aden2005]

if you want it done then yep you ask LOL :)
I did and thank god he said yes :thumbsup:

Luv,
Katherine-xx-

[Niki]

:thumbsup: i think its a great idea

[Cinta]

I'm very traditional, I prefer the guys asking the women...
But that's just my preference, so if you wanna do it I would say go for it! Its really nice of you to ask his Mum, and it would really suprise your DP :yes:

Do you know that its supposedly bad luck for a female to propose unless its a leap year?

Good luck anyway, let us know how it goes if you decide to do it! :hugs:

[Widget]

Do you know that its supposedly bad luck for a female to propose unless its a leap year?


This is what I was going to say!

Tradition is that the male asks the female unless it is a leap year.

I think the tradition of asking the parents is worth keeping alive, it shows respect for their desicion and respect for the partner by allowing them to see that you accept everything that goes with them.

[Ashleigh<3]

Im so glad Im not, 'very', traditional!

[Mummy2Noah]

:thumbsup: I say go for it i think its Beautiful that you want to do that for your DP!!!!!